spring0808's Journal

My sons wife is here, the kids are on spring break. I have decided ot let it all go. I love my son and want him to do well. He brought the kids over yesterday and left them, he has two Adhd step kids, one boy and girl and of course his kelsey. I explained that I had tried to be a good grandparent and have done equally for them all. I bought school uniforms, shoes coats jackets christmas, birthdays etc. When I finished my chemo last year I was weak and then I had surgery in October and my sons wife called and was speaking on an issue she had gotten my son into trouble I have forgiven her and want nothing else to do with her. She is a disrespectful child   he had started work almost costing him his new job. I told him, warned him but he didnt listen. I said if you get in any trouble from her I want be there. Of coures he didnt listen.So when she called me in the hospital I told her that there was nothing I could do. I was just out of surgery that day and I said I told him he shouldnt have taken anything from her and she hung up and preceeded to call my room curssing me out and I had my phone unplugged and then it was my cell phone and I cut it off. The next day she had filled my phone up cursing me out. I deleted them all and didnt listen to them all.The 2 step kids were agitated, couldnt sit sit stay making the youngest cry. I could probably deal with the girls but the boy is too hard to handle and now I cant see my grandbaby. I give it up to God and I am letting him handle it. His wife is something else.God has made me strong and most of my life I havent always known if its okay to say okay enough. I find that its ok to say work it out amongst yourselves and if you decide its okay to see my baby then alright I will but I cant see myself with all the drama from his wife. She cursed the child today saying she coulnt see me. God has told me to wait and I shall.