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  • About Me

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    BobCJ

    Male, 60, Married
    Rancho Cordova, CA, USA
    Member since January 4, 2008

    • About Me

      Ask, and I will tell you. I cannot accept friend requests; however, I am friendly. You may ask one unfriendly question, I will answer, and we take it from there.

      Ask, and I will tell you. I cannot accept friend requests; however, I am friendly. You may ask one unfriendly question, I will answer, and we take it from there.

    • Interests

      The Way

      The Way

  • Recent Activity

    Recently:

    • 6 hugs received, 4 hugs given, 3 journal comments, 2 photo comments

    Yesterday

    • BobCJ gave 1sickofit a hug 2:46pm

      Way to be! It is actually you who own your rage, not the other way around. Keep on having a fun day,…  
    • BobCJ wrote a discussion post in the Depression support group: Fun 11:37am

      Let's all have fun today. Even if some of us are deep in crisis, let't have fun anyway! If we never laugh,…  
    • BobCJ gave jazzergirl superhero status 12:04am

      All of us who see are the heros, and there need to be more of us. And I think it is beginning to happen.…  

    Saturday

  • Journal

    • October 29, 2009 Thursday

      Mood October 29, 2009 7:45am

      IT IS BLACK SHIRT THURSDAY ONCE AGAIN.  I HAVE LEARNED NOT TO TAKE THE SLINGS AND ARROWS OF THE "TRIGGER SCHMIGGERS" PERSONALLY.  …

    • October 21 2009 Wednesday Morning

      Mood October 21, 2009 8:06am

           I have been blessed with the opportunity to listen and talk with a couple of friends who came to me at sixes and …

    • Mother.

      Mood October 15, 2009 8:16am

      Tomorrow, had she lived on, my mother would have been 88.  She was claimed by a nasty hospital infection April of 2007.  She was a …

    • October Tenth 2009

      Mood October 10, 2009 9:08pm

      I EXPECTED TO LET GO AND LET GOD.  I DID, AND GOD DID.   MY MARRIAGE IS STRONGER, AND I AM LIFTED IN CONSCIOUSNESS.  I SEEM TO …

    • FOR ALL MY FRIENDS

      Mood October 3, 2009 9:58am

      THIS IS THE DAY THAT I START ALL OVER.  EVERY DAY IS THE DAY I START ALL OVER.  THERE IS TROUBLE IN MY FAMILY.  I AM BUSY TELLING …

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  • Hugbook

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    • I’m With You

      From 1sickofit Yesterday

      Thanks for the fun post, I have been letting my rage control me for the last few days, but not today!

    • Superhero Status

      From jazzergirl Saturday

      Thanks - excellent reply & you are spot on. We the people...................are going to have to "fix" this mess. :)

    • Hug

      From jazzergirl Saturday

      I ranted on the boards lol :)

    • Hug

      From KCJ Saturday

      that scroll is the 'press release' of my book that I asked my friend to put on 'parchment' for me - she does such wonderful work.

      I agree about letting go - even with one little problem when you let it go it feels like the world has been lifted from your shoulders and sometimes I feel like I once carried a thousand of those little problems and still have a ways to go to let them all go

      Blessings

    • Hug

      From jazzergirl Thursday

      A big hug for the DS Green Angel!

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Depression
      Type: Clinical (Major) Depression

      I am 59 years old, have had depression on and off since I was 13. I have three grown children, and am twice married. Currently, I am having a relapse of depression.

      Treatments

      Celexa Considering
      Have used Citalopram for eight years. Seems to have stopped working
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
      Writing Somewhat Helpful
      have kept a journal for ten years. Writing sometimes tames my thoughts.
      Zoloft Working / Worked
      used for about two years, then tapered off. Brought me out of a serious episode of depression.
    • Close Depression - Teen

      Father of 1 son, two daughters. Have major depression, treated. 59 years old. Grandfather of one. Divorced and remarried 5 years. Afflicted w/depression for over 40 years. Alive, and thriving!

      Treatments

      Celexa Working / Worked
      Believe it "faded" after eitht years. Added Wellbutrin, and that seems to work.
      Meditation Working / Worked
      Works well if I am not at the botom of an episode
      Music Working / Worked
      Soft jazz, new age, relaxation CD's
      Pets Working / Worked
      Two cats and a dog. Fur people are good company.
      Positive Thinking Working / Worked
      Again, when not at a bottom, this is helpful.
      Psychotherapy Working / Worked
      My wife and I see a good counselor together. She is a godsend.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      Helps keep me from slipping.
      Talking Working / Worked
      I attend Al-Anon. This has helped even when I am bottomed out.
      Writing Working / Worked
      Have kept journals for ten years. Useful in reflecting on my progress.
    • Open Codependency

      Treatments

      12 Step Program Working / Worked
      Made friends lifelong. It is a home for me, and family I would have given anything to have had
      Music Working / Worked
      always loved music, even before Co.
      Pets Working / Worked
      I owe my life to an old, deceased dog, who intervened in a serious suicide attempt.
      Reading Working / Worked
      Prolific Reader, eclectic preference.
      Talking Working / Worked
      Sharing, sponsoring, speaking at events; getting it out relieves shame and guilt.
      \"Codependent No More\" Working / Worked
      10+ years Al-Anon. Saved Life. Melody is Recovery Goddess
      EMDR Working / Worked
      This is the real deal. No more PTSD after having it since age 6.
    • Open Sexual Abuse

      many of my friends, esp the teens, have these issues. To understand what I hear, I would like to participate.

      Treatments

      Leave Working / Worked
      Alcoholic wife left me, and two teenaged daughters.
      Talking Working / Worked
      12 years Al-anon and Alateen, but mostly adult family groups. I healed a lot of damage accrued as a result of 22 years alcoholic marriage.
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