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Goal End Date is Jan 1, 09 326 days ago.
Timeman 
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About Me
Timeman
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About Me
Went through a rough emotional divorce after 38 years. I Didn’t want it …she did . Divorced in March of this year (2009), but was dealing with it for two years. I’m much better now with little spurts Of crying and feeling sad , nothing like it was… I’m ok and doing well now ! Also have some medical problems that seem to be ok for now. So, I’m thankful of that. Also dealing with a little PTSD from Nam . The divorce brought it all out. Never thought much about it until then . I think that it had a lot to do with my marriage over the years. I had all the symptoms, but never recognized them . I look back now at all the negative things I did in my life with a different understanding of them now. Anyway…Bla , bla , Bla… I have two beautiful grandchildren and they are a big part of my life including my son and his wife. Al in al……I think that I’m doing pretty good considering what I have been through. My Faith in God is more powerful then it’s ever been ! Take care Bob
Went through a rough emotional divorce after 38 years. I Didn’t want it …she did . Divorced in March of this year (2009), but was dealing with it for two years. I’m much better now with little spurts Of crying and feeling sad , nothing like it was… I’m ok and doing well now ! Also have some medical problems that seem to be ok for now. So, I’m thankful of that. Also dealing with a little PTSD from Nam . The divorce brought it all out. Never thought much about it until then . I think that
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Interests
I hope to use everything that I’ve learned and been through in the last two years to try to help others. I also want to do some volunteer work . I was a General contractor for 30 years , so I want to use that skill to help others that are less fortunate. Maybe through the church ! I still enjoy my son , his wife and my two beautiful Grandchildren . I’m also thinking of going fishing again . I gave it up about 10 years ago. I also like gardening . Can’t do much now because the house is up for sale. Tried the dating thing and it’s not for me right now. I would like to meet someone someday , but she would really have to be special . I don’t want to get into the having a different girl every night , week …. I don’t think that’s to good. Thanks for reading this … God Bless. Bob
I hope to use everything that I’ve learned and been through in the last two years to try to help others.
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Recent Activity
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2 hugs given, 2 hugs received, 1 discussion post
Thursday
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Timeman wrote a discussion post in the Veterans support group: Our Flag 5:56pm
Well Guys …Girls.. I feel that I finally got somewhere with my flag abuse problem in the Jewel/Osco…
November 16
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Timeman gave tearful flowers 10:34am
Thank you my dear.... Just do your best...That's all you can do . And never ever stop believing.....…
November 14
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Timeman changed their mood to OK 6:45pm
November 12
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Timeman gave tearful a thanks 8:43am
Good Morning dear, Thank you and I did my best. Now YOU do your best for me.... OK. That's all anyone…
November 10
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Timeman wrote a discussion post in the Veterans support group: Veterans Day. 9:38pm
Hello, I want to wish everyone here a very special happy Veterans Day. Let us not forget the ones that…
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Hugbook
Funny Face
Where are you, I am worried!!! Let me see your beautiful face!!!
Hug
Thank you for the wonderful encouraging words. I know that God will take care of it all. He has a plan for each and every one of us. I just have to have patience, and faith. I just hope things change for the better soon as it's so frustrating, and painful. Your kind words do let me know I'm not alone. Thank you again, and I look forward to hearing & talking with you again.
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Hug
Back atcha
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Gold Star
I'm thinking of you, and you can do it!!! I'm here if you need anything.........
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Thanks
THANK YOU so much for what you have done for all of us!!
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
Treatments
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- Sometimes things in life just happen. To come to understand that helped. Hate is not the answer, it's the distroyer !
- Leave Not Working
- Just missed her and the house. I don't know whta best here..staying or leaving...they both hurt.
- Love Somewhat Helpful
- When one looses the love. It's hard to do anything to make them see it again. I keep trying anyway..Hoping that she wakes up and sees some light. Maybe not the love again, but some compassion and understanding feelings thta I'm going through.
- Music Not Working
- Just brought back to many memories. Best to listen to ocean sounds..waves... birds...Raining and thunder... Not sad songs !
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- Went to a hospital for depression and deal with the divorce for 5 weeks. Learned so much on how to deal with feelings and emotion and many other things. One of the best programs thta I have ever been in. If you have the opertunity to go to one....GO !
- Support from Friends & Family Not Working
- Friends kind of get tired of hearing about your problems...Some avoid you completly. Family is good of course ,but they also get tired of hearing you and they have thier own lives to lead. Nice to talk to ,but don't over do it.
- Support Groups Considering
- They say thta it's good to meet others with sort of the same problem..I'm going to try it soon.
- Talking Working / Worked
- Always worked with me. I a;ways felt better to tell someone...The problem is who !!! I found some on-line churches thta I could call.
- Time Working / Worked
- It gets a little easier as time goes on wit hset backs that come and go. The crying doesn't last as long.
Close Veterans
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