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DrJeremy TeamDS
Male, 38, Los Angeles, CA
"tweeting as pedjeremy"
11:33am, August 11, 2009
Should I get an allowance now? Mood
Tuesday, August 19, 2008

I'm still smirking at this one.  I had the day off today and so the family and I went to our local mall to do a little shopping.  We were about an hour and a half into it when the kids starting hammering me to take them for the pretzel I apparently agreed to (funny thing, never even remember them asking me in the first place).  But with them bouncing off the walls and my wife still finishing things up on her end (and no, not looking to put the blame on her as I went first today), I said I'd take the 3 of them to the pretzel stand.  Pretty funny, walked the entire mall until we finally found it and right before we ordered, I realized I had no cash...only the credit card.  Now I really don't like using the credit card for small purchases (don't ask me why, just one of those quirky things) and might have expressed my disappointment a bit too loud as my 7 year old daughter (carrying a purse and an old wallet of mine) said "no problem, daddy.  I have money."  After doing a double take, she told me she had $15 (the Tooth Fairy has been a frequent visitor this year) and again, would be happy to loan me some money.

 

So I borrowed $5 and bought the pretzels.  My son (nearly 5) witnessed the whole thing and still thanked me for the pretzel...which I found quite humorous.  But my question to those with older children, does it really happen this fast?

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  1. mumofthree

    it does Dr J!!! ehmily even says to me mum dont worry about pocket money this week i know we are a but tight for cash...kids can really suprise you..especially when they start packing your bags for the old folk's home :P

    mind you Ehmily will also will constantly remind me that i owe her $5 until i pay it back lol kids sheesh they make good loan sharks :D

    thanks for sharing Dr J!!!

    xoxShelly and the kidsxox


    mumofthree

  2. mumofthree

    sorry wrote will twice MY BAD!


    mumofthree

  3. NickNicksmommykitkat

    it sure does!!!!!!!!! I have a 13 year old who can sit on cash he makes for months. He may get a buck or two here or there for doing small jobs around the house and around the neighborhood and slowly nickeling and diming me for lunch money etc. In July he went to camp with the Boy Scouts. As I was pulling out cash to give him as spending money, he kindly alerted me that "my petty cash wasn't needed." He managed to save 300 bucks over the last 10 months for spending at camp....


    NickNicksmommykitkat

  4. bsu

    Yep it sure does!! Amazing isnt it!!


    bsu

  5. CloudStrife

    Yea, lol. It actually does. This WAS quite humorous by the way.


    CloudStrife

  6. CoolGal

    cute story Poor daddy had no money, Good thing your daughter bailed you out of that one. Kids grow up so fast these days hugs to all-Stephanie


    CoolGal

  7. SimplyJT

    AMAZING & CUTE : )


    SimplyJT

  8. beephobia

    that really was a great story. i NEVER carry cash. always use debit. my 4 year old ALWAYS has 'more coins' than i.
    congratulations to your brother, as well, and to your little one's pink room (you'll adjust? :-)
    your family must be proud of everyone's success...and so nice that in the midst of your success you take such a wonderful amount of time to give back.
    j.


    beephobia

  9. ATIGERGIRL99

    that was awasome, you must be very proud of her, and you and your wife raisd a great kid.


    ATIGERGIRL99

  10. hugsneeded

    Proud papa...You have cute children. I like your pictures on your page. Nice to hear true stories about professional families. It makes them more human.


    hugsneeded

  11. enchantment

    Hello Dr Jeremy, I LoL at your smirk I imagine the look on that smiling face of yours. Do you really have time to read and write to people? As a Nurse, Who is now medically retired and you work with those precious babies and you get to deal with the PARENTS!! My word that's hard. I worked on the Neuro Treatment Unit everyone is on a vent close head injuries I loved it any way have a Blessed Day. Oh I was an R.N. for25 yrs. God Bless!


    enchantment

  12. hyemom

    Only if you are blessed. My sons are much older and they loan me cash. But I always respect them and make sure I pay them back!
    Enjoy them!!


    hyemom

  13. kazinmich

    I always have to scratch my head when my daughter says, 'well i have money" hmmm... She doesn't get an allowance.. hmm... lol.. but she does save every single penny - whether it's from a sidewalk, or for when she does help out on extra chores and earns a few dollars. Or when I give her money for gifts on a field trip, and she buys the cheapest things and hides the rest.. LOL.

    I have to also keep a note of when I owe her money and when I pay her back. This rarely happens, since i usually have cash as well, however, when it does, I forget that I pay her back and end up paying her back three or four times!!!!


    kazinmich

  14. roro1106

    you know when your kids are good that means you are doing right by them. my nephew is also very generous with his money. my sil lost her wedding ring and he offered to buy her a new one (little does he know he doesnt have enough money) but its so sweet.


    roro1106

  15. poisonberry

    Your children sound wonderful.


    poisonberry

  16. AtticusFinch

    The first rule my parents told me that I taught them, was that children never stop surprising you. Mine have sure lived up to the bill!


    AtticusFinch

  17. AtticusFinch

    ...Oh! I almost forgot....
    What sort of intrest rate did you get for this loan? (being family and all..)


    AtticusFinch

  18. grammysdbest

    Oh yeah, just wait till your baby has a baby and all at once you look and she is a married grown woman with a son and you watch in wonder as she/he becomes a parent and realize you did a pretty good job because she is a better parent than even you were! And you know your grandchildren will be better at it than your children. It is totally wild to watch it unfold and happen.


    grammysdbest

  19. awakendwoman

    lol..i have often had to borrow money from the tooth fairy money..... she is so expensive these days....lol.....yes it does happen that fast!!!!!


    awakendwoman

  20. peggel01

    Something you said caught my eye right from the start. I have only had two Doctors that trated me as thou I had a brain. They didn't talk down to me, they also didn't use terms that the general public wouln't understand. That's what impressed the heck out of me. You see, my father was a surgyn (I can't spell) and I loved the way he treated people. His practice in the 70's made him a very special person. He was the second man to do a tooth implant in he US and he did i 25 years before The ADA said that iy could be done. I know things have cchanged, he would meet a patient down t his office at 3:00am if they were in pain. I have some qusrions for you but honestly I need to lay down. God Bess You Peggy


    peggel01

The Pink Room Mood
Sunday, August 17, 2008 | A General Update story

When we moved into our new house last year, we were able to paint my son's room a nice blue.  We had also picked out our daughter's color back then...bright pink...but for whatever the reason, we just finally painted the room today.  And is it pink.  Now I'm sure once we get the furniture back in there, some posters on the wall, it will dim the intensity of the color...at least that's my hope.

 

But I guess it doesn't matter what I think because my daughter loves it...and really, that's all that matters to me.

 

Dr. Jeremy

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  1. Theresa42266

    THAT'S PRETTY NEAT DR. JEREMY, MY DAUGHTER'S ROOM IF A BRIGHT PINK TOO! I'M SURE SHE LOVES IT, I KNOW MY LITTLE GIRL DOES!! AFTER ALL THE HAPPINESS OF OUR CHILDREN IS THE MOST IMPORTANT. WISHING YOU A BLESSED DAY!! SINCERLY, Theresa


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  2. suzyhopes

    When we moved into our house the little girl that lived there before had her room pepto pink and you had to squint when you walked in. The old owners said they had to find the same color for their new house because she loved it so much.


    suzyhopes

  3. ATIGERGIRL99

    PINK IS AN ASWASOME FOR A LITTLE GIRL, I KNOW SHE WILL LOVE IT, GLAD YOU TOOK OUT TIME TO DO IT FOR HER...


    ATIGERGIRL99

  4. LanyL

    Lisa picked out a soft pink for the new baby - at least that's what she thought from the paint chip. Oops, it's really bright, but heck it has faded or we all have gotten used to it. It is kinda nice on a really cloudy day when the world is gray. I hope you come to love it or at least live with it.


    LanyL

  5. staceyhtchns

    my little sister's room with pink too. silly girls.


    staceyhtchns

  6. sarahg

    When I was a nanny the girl I watched at a BRIGHT pink room. I'm talking magenta pink. Even when we put stuff on the walls etc the color didn't dim. It was so bright I couldn't go into her room without getting a headache. What made it even more difficult was that she loved being read to in her room. I couldn't do it. I use to bribe her with anything to be able to read her a story in the living room.
    I hope the pink-ness of the room dulls for you.


    sarahg

  7. DrJeremy

    thank you to everyone for the wonderful insight and words of encouragement. Funny thing, one day later either I'm enjoying the color more or just proud that I (and my wife) painted it ourselves.


    DrJeremyTeamDS

  8. mumofthree

    Aww Dr J when she leaves for college and you look at those faded pink walls (if they havent been painted again)you will remember how excited she was that she had her very own pink room..all hers painted with love by mom and dad!
    Savour the moment cause the teen years creep up fast!


    mumofthree

  9. cramsession

    Aww how old is she? Iemember going through the time's when I liked that color lol! When my dad and I moved from Grand Rapids to West Bloomfield my room was pink. 2 years later I had it painted white. We even took out the carpet and that became green. I moved out of my dad's at the age of 21 and moved to Clarkston, Mi I have been here from then on and will be 25 in September


    cramsession

  10. sja

    We had friends who painted their daughters room pink, and honest to God, it looked like it was sprayed down with Pepto Bismol. I hope it does dim down some, but hey, if it makes her happy, that's what matters! 80)


    sja

  11. guypaul

    Pink is a fun color for a boy or a girl.


    guypaul

A Proud Brother Mood
Thursday, May 15, 2008

Tomorrow I will see my brother walk across the stage and receive his Ph.D. in Political Economy and Public Policy...and I couldn't be prouder.  Not only will it serve as the culmination of nearly 7 years of hard work, but it will truly represent a lifetime achievement of which there have been many ups and downs.  And I will be honored to be able to watch his moment in the sun, for he has earned it.

 

Congratulations brother.

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  1. HelloChrissy

    That is so awesome. You sound so proud. Have a wonderful celebration!


    HelloChrissyTeamDS

  2. DJH

    that's great, dr. j. i hope my kids can be as proud of each other when they're older...


    DJHTeamDS

  3. CoolGal

    Congrats to your brother that's great, hugs-Stephanie


    CoolGal

  4. nicholas

    That's great news. 7 years! That's dedication that deserves recognition.


    nicholas

  5. JTFeeliNBlues

    I BET IT FEELS GOOOOOOD...HV FUN!!!!!


    JTFeeliNBlues

  6. LanyL

    Hi Dr. Jeremy,
    If your brother is anything like you, he is pretty terrific. Congratulations to all of you and have a great time.


    LanyL

  7. mumofthree

    woohoo give him a huge smoochie from all of us here on DS!


    mumofthree

  8. elisha

    What an amazing achievement! I like reading positive journal entries like this one. Check out my last two pictures, we finally "officially" adopted our baby Elizabeth here in the US. We have already adopted her officially in Guatemala. She needed to be officially adopted in both countries. She is a good little girl, keeps us smiling all the time...


    elisha

  9. poohscorner

    Have a wonderful celebration


    poohscorner

  10. lokkingforpeace

    Hey that great news - All the best with the celebrations


    lokkingforpeace

  11. poisonberry

    That's amazing.


    poisonberry


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