Goal Completed on Jul 17, 09
joybean72 
12:15pm, October 29, 2009
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About Me
joybean72
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About Me
STILL trying to get divorced!
STILL trying to get divorced!
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Interests
Skiing, NASCAR, & hanging out with friends & family.
Skiing, NASCAR, & hanging out with friends & family.
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Goals
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
He's a fucktard, don't want him back....I am SO better off by myself! Just starting the divorce process. It's been hard, but can't wait till this shit is OVER!!! :)
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- We divorced. Can't work on a marriage when you are "working" on someone else...DUH!
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- Leave Working / Worked
- Pets Working / Worked
- I love my cat! She's a needy little thing...but at least she loves me! :)
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- I couldn't have stayed strong without my DS peeps! ((((Hug))) Thank you all!
- Talking Working / Worked
- Time Working / Worked
- That's what it takes.
Close Healthy Relationships
I was with my soon to be ex husband for 7 years, married for 4 1/2. It wasn't a healthy relationship from the start...but I loved him. I KNOW someday I will have a healthy, loving relationship. I believe I have it in me.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Only did it once, then he tells me he just doesn't want to even bother. That he's not going to change & that he doesn't want to.
- Leave Not Working
- I left because I had threatened SO many times in the past. Thinking it would wake him up...it made him just enjoy his lifestyle that much better.
- Talking Not Working
- I was just talking to a wall, I guess!
Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)
My daughter just turned 13!!! I'm currently separated from my husband (who is not her father) and am going through tough times. Not only with that, but it has affected her as well.
Treatments
- Patience Somewhat Helpful
Open Codependency
Just separated from my alcoholic husband. His lifestyle is more important than me. I almost got sucked in, but need to get back to the way I was before.
Treatments
- 12 Step Program Somewhat Helpful
Open Infidelity
My husband out of town for 9 months for work & came back with more than he left with! :( Then had another affair a year later with another co-worker. They have been living together since I left & now he wants to be my friend. WHATEVER!
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Only went once. Can't work on a marriage when you are "working" on someone else.
- Divorce Working / Worked
- Shiteous.
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- Still can't be his friend though!
- Leave Not Working
- He likes the single life better I guess!
Open Families & Friends Of Addicts
My husband chose that lifestyle over our marriage. The lifestyle we met in that almost destroyed me.
Treatments
- Al-Anon Considering
- Trying to find a meeting in my area.
- Patience Not Working
- Feel like I've been waiting around for OUR life together to start. It's been 7 years.
- Psychotherapy Not Working
- He only wanted to do it once.
- Talking Not Working
- Writing Somewhat Helpful
- I'm doing it now on here. I just found this place.
Open Alcoholism
Getting divorced from an alcoholic. Alcohol almost ruined my life as well. I had to get out to get my life back....the real me back.
Treatments
- AA Meetings Somewhat Helpful
- Al-Anon Considering
- I tried it when I was younger, my mom is a recovering alcoholic.
Open Financial Challenges
Just want to get my life back! Damnit!
Treatments
- Earn Money Working / Worked
- Working, I guess! lol
Open Single Parenting
My daughter is almost 14. Divorce is almost final from first marriage (Not daughter's father)...Back to being a single mom.
Open DailyStrength Members Community
joybean72 hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Open Caring For Aging Parents
Back living with my mother after going through a nasty divorce.
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Groups
Cheaters Anonymous
A New Earth
Mentors for Ending Toxic Relationships
NEED A GOOD LAUGH
My new life during and after divorce
INFIDELTY RELATIONSHIPS AND SHATTERED DREAMS
WOMEN ONLY
Daily Positive Thoughts
Berts Happy Place
Women who survived infidelity and became stronger
Friends Connection
The Beautiful People Group
