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  • About Me

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    rma

    Female, 41, Married
    NZL
    Member since December 9, 2007

    • About Me

      I am a mother of three beautiful children. My daughter Luchan passed away on 13th Nov 2007 aged 14 years and 7 months. My son Jason is two years old and my baby boy Alan is 8 weeks old. I am married to a caring and wonderful husband. I am a Chartered Accountant. I was a happy and easy going person. My life has been changed totally since Luchan's passing.My heart has broken and I don't know what kind of life is in front of me without my precious daughter.I come to DS to make friends, to seek help and try to help others as well.

      I am a mother of three beautiful children. My daughter Luchan passed away on 13th Nov 2007 aged 14 years and 7 months. My son Jason is two years old and my baby boy Alan is 8 weeks old. I am married to a caring and wonderful husband. I am a Chartered Accountant. I was a happy and easy going person. My life has been changed totally since Luchan's passing.My heart has broken and I don't know what kind of life is in front of me without my precious daughter.I come to DS to make friends, to seek help

    • Interests

      Family is everything to me. I love my children and my husband with all my heart and soul. I love reading, music.

      Family is everything to me. I love my children and my husband with all my heart and soul. I love reading,

  • Recent Activity

    Recently:

    • 13 hugs given, 1 hug received, 1 journal comment, 1 journal post

    Saturday

    • rma gave BinkyH a hug 4:35pm

      think of you this weekend on your angel's first anniversary, hug you tight and love you so much. send…  

    Thursday

    • rma gave l8gra a hug 3:19pm

      Hi Lynn, thank you f or your comment in my journal, thank you for being such a caring friend and big…  
    • rma gave munrogirl a hug 3:17pm

      thank you for your comment in my journal, hope that you are doing well, thinking of you a lot. take care…  
    • rma gave rcoco a hug 3:15pm

      Hi Rebecca, thank you for your comment in my journal. I am sorry for your loss of your beautiful son.…  
    • rma gave Kingsdaughter a hug 3:13pm

      Dale, thank you for your comment in my journal. I am sorry for your loss of your precious son. It is…  
  • Journal

    • got through Luchan's 2nd anniversary

      Mood November 17, 2009 5:54pm

       

      We managed to get through Luchan's 2nd anniversary. We had a busy day, more than 20 of Luchan's friends met us in the cemetery at 10am …

    • Luchan's 2nd anniversary coming up

      Mood November 10, 2009 4:56pm

      Luchan's second anniversary is in two days, this coming Friday 13th November. I have been struggling to keep my head above the water for last few …

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    • miss my DS friends

      Mood October 7, 2009 6:10pm

       

      I haven't been on site for a while. We are more settled now. Little Alan is 8 weeks and doing very well. Jason adjusts well and enjoys …

    • My baby boy Alan

      Mood August 22, 2009 6:51pm

      My dear DS friends,

       

      My baby boy Alan was born on 11th August at 12.23am NZ time. It was a quick delivery (an hour) and both of us are doing …

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  • Hugbook

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    • Little Love

      From munrogirl Friday

      Love to you..

    • Hug

      From Robin4 November 13

      Sending you peace, comfort and love today. May you find many smiles at the beautiful memories of Luchan. Love to you. Robin

    • Prayer

      From Denimari November 13

      Saying a prayer for peace for you today. I remember when you joined DS, I remember some of your first journals. We have traveled a long time together and will continue to.
      May heavenly angels guard your heart today and God wrap his loving arms around you.

    • Hug

      From RememberKala November 13

      Thinking of you and Luchan on this difficult day. I am saying her name out loud as my way on honoring her....L U C H A N...... She is remembered. Love, Teri

    • I’m With You

      From Livingjuicy November 10

      What a beautiful family your have and I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious, daughter. I will be sending special thoughts your way as your approach the 13th. These angel anniversaries, birthdays, holidays... pull on our heart-strings as we miss our children so much. Sending you a hug today. Your friend, Joanie

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Bereavement
      Type: Loss of a Child

      I lost my 14 years old daughter on 13 Nov 2007. She was sick for three days and she passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. We were told she only got flu at the beginning.Our world was shattered and never will be the same again.

      Treatments

      Crying Somewhat Helpful
      Crying helps to get the feeling out and makes you exhausted and numb.
      Grief Counseling Too Soon to Tell
      Keeping Busy Working / Worked
      Going back to work, spending as much time as possible with my son Jason do help.
      Poetry Working / Worked
      Reading poems helps me to ease the pain.
      Reading Working / Worked
      Reading some books brings comforts to me.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      We are not able to go through this sad time without the support from friends and family.
      Support Groups Working / Worked
      DS friends give me huge supports and I cannot go through each day without your love.
      Talking Working / Worked
      Talking it out for me can help me to ease the pain and remember and cherish my daughter.
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