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About Me
NikiT
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Interests
My partner and my two cats
My partner and my two cats
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Recent Activity
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1 hug given
Monday
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NikiT gave flowergirl0207 a rainbow 3:39pm
Glad things are going good for you (apart from the DS situation). I'm ok too. It's my 30th birthday this…
October 29
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NikiT gave lunarmodel a hug 6:53pm
If you ever need to chat, I'm here xxx…
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NikiT gave flowergirl0207 a thanks 6:51am
Aw, thanks for your really sweet message - I'm smiling :). Catch up soon xxxx And when I have more time…
October 27
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NikiT gave flowergirl0207 flowers 3:34am
Thanks for your message hon. Soz I've not been on much the last week or so. I had an interview for a…
October 26
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Journal
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My first entry
23/10/08
Wow this is kind of scary. I have been on DS since December 2007 but never really felt comfortable telling my innermost feelings to people, …
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Hugbook
Hug
Thanks, hon. You too. :)
Ray of Sunshine
Sorry you havent been feeling to well or sleeping too good lately, I hope that changes soon :-) I'm also sorry you didn't get the job, But you'll find a better opportunity, I really believe when a door doesnt open for us, it's because there's a better door waiting to! Take care of yourself, and I'll talk with you soon ! BIG HIG
Hug
Hi! I am thinking about you, but I havent heard from you lately, I hope you are ok, and everything is going well. Please drop me a message when you can and let me know how you are ! Take Care :-) HUGS
Hug
thank you for your hug, it has been so hard recently. she has been acting out and getting very stressed about court- the still do not have a trial date - she said she just wants it over with so she can get on with her life and be a normal kid, I hope it comes soon for her, the entire family is stressed, but I think it will be better for all of us if we can help her put him behind bars. I know it will never end - the pain - but it will get better, but this delay is not helping. thankyou again for caring
Thanks
thank you for all your help i really do appreciate everything you have done for me but i gotta go now. take care
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Support Groups
Close Rape
I was raped when I was 14/15 years old - I can't quite remember exactly! by someone I knew. I thought I could just forget about it and make the rest of my life good. However, this hasn't worked. I am now trying to get over this as it has been increasingly affecting my life. I have anxiety, insomnia, depression and PTSD. I recently reported it to the Police and unsurprisingly there isn't enough evidence to prosecute! I am learning to heal and becoming a survivor!
Treatments
- Emotions Anonymous (EA) Not Working
- EMDR Not at all helpful when I tried it. The Therapist talked about sex in an aggressive and inappropriate way that actually compounded my distress. Perhaps a different Therapist would have been more useful.
- Psychotherapy Working / Worked
- This has helped. I'm still have some hills to climb but I think I'm getting there!
- Rape Counseling Working / Worked
- Helpful
- Talking Working / Worked
- This always has a positive effect for me.





