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Shanny2007
Female, 34, Kansas City, MO
"Happy Thanksgiving!"
2:34pm
OK.. so I am obviously not ready to quit... Mood
Tuesday, October 7, 2008 | A Breaking News story

So we went to the RE this morning.. as I suspected the first thing he suggested was donor eggs.  He does not think I have premature ovarian failure, but he does think my egg supply is low.  He thinks I will never make it to 50 for menopause, but maybe 40s.  We are going to do on more test.. the Clomid Challenge test.  This is kinda hopefully going to give us closure on my eggs.  If it is bad we are done with mine.. if it is not bad he said he would try on me again if I wanted.  It makes me feel good that he doesn't care about his stats and will keep trying with me if I want.  I guess I have responded in the past..

 

Now for the really interesting news.  After I left the appointment I called my sister (she is 27 with one child) and asked her to think about being my egg donor.  I just can't let this all go quite yet...

 

Stay tuned...

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  1. SueCQ

    I think this is all great! Remember it only takes one egg!! Even though you may have a low reserve doesn't mean you don't have any eggs, I ampraying for Shannon with the Clomid challenge test!! And to have your Sis as a backup for egg donation is wonderful!!


    SueCQ

  2. Jen2279

    I think this is great too! It sounds like you have a good RE that has your best interest at heart. I hope so much the Clomid challenge test goes well! That's wonderful you have your sister as a back up too.


    Jen2279

  3. clh91

    Great News Shannon! I love your positive outlook as well! It pays to be positive -- the alternative isn't much fun! We will stay tuned -- and I will be thinking of you!


    clh91

  4. danabug33

    sounds like good news girl!!! good luck with the clomid challenge test..and cant wait to hear what your sis says..good to have back up..you are alwyas so well organized and prepared..prayers and hugs!!!


    danabug33

  5. laraM

    I am glad you are not quitting! I think you should try every option available and if your sister is up for it, great! I am excited about the news from this appointment! When does the fun start?


    laraM

  6. turtlegirl

    Good for you!


    turtlegirl

  7. mrsolsenk12

    I think it is great that you are willing to keep going. That is awesome!! I congragulate you for your willingness to continue!


    mrsolsenk12

  8. phecal

    Well at least that's encouraging news...I'm sure things will all turn out for the best. I'll be praying for you!


    phecal

  9. Baby07

    That's great news!!! A friend of mine gave her sister her eggs (the sister was missing ovaries). It would be wonderful if she did that. In either case, I'm glad you've got a doctor that is not as interested in stats as he is in helping you! Let us know how it goes!!! I'm thinking of you!


    Baby07

  10. LaureNJ

    Good for you, there's a reason (intuition?) why you can't quit just yet! I love the idea of asking your sister, I would be honored to do the same w/ my sister! Best wishes to you xo


    LaureNJ

  11. albgray

    Shannon, I love your tenacity! Don't ever give up on your dream. I'm praying for you.


    albgray

  12. bcgradgirl

    I am so proud of you for not giving up! It sounds like you have a doctor who is concerned with making your dreams come true no matter how difficult. I think its wonderful that you asked your sister to be an egg donor as well. Im thinking of you always. xoxo


    bcgradgirl

  13. shelleybee

    Yeah!don't give up!Try again.Try again and...try again.Gosh can't it work on the first try??Geez.I guess it is rare.You are one step closer to a BFP.Everytime you get a BFN and you try again...you are that much closer.I have faith that this will work for you.I think it is awesome that you asked your sister to be the egg doner!i hope she agrees because that would be so cool!


    shelleybee

  14. dulcylee

    My fingers are crossed. If this works you will have a much longed for child...a very spoiled child I think...best of luck & keep us posted!!! xxxx


    dulcylee

  15. melissaas

    I'm praying for you. I think its great that you are reviewing every possible option & I know you will be a mom.


    melissaas

  16. BeyBey

    Shanny hang in there. I'm praying for your bfp.


    BeyBey

  17. lyssie2

    Good luck on the clomid. I'm praying this is the one for you. I hope that your sister was also honored that you asked her. That is really touching. It's bringing a tear to my eye!


    lyssie2

  18. Jenelle8

    I love that you are not givinng up. I just know you are meant to be a mommy. I pray yout test goes well. If it doesn't then on to the next step. Remember tht no matter what path you end up taking, you will be a mommy!!!!


    Jenelle8

  19. HopefullySomeDay

    I'm glad you were able to leave the RE's on a positive note! I also think calling your sister is great!!! Good luck and I hope this is the beginning of a positive turn around for you!


    HopefullySomeDay

  20. TiredJen

    I have my fingers crossed that your test goes well. I think it's cool you could ask your sister to be your donor, that would be really neat. I know you will be a mommy soon, one way or another. I'll stay tuned in for sure!


    TiredJen

  21. JenO4

    you give me the strength to continue with this battle...i am so feeling like giving up lately. but reading you journal gives me hope. good luck and always best wishes to you. xo


    JenO4

  22. joanne33

    I am soooo sorry, I missed this journal entry before. If I found out that I needed donor egges. My sister would be the first person I would call. She is my best and closest friend to me in the whole world and that's exactly who I would ask. I wish that we had an egg issue instead of a sperm problem because then I could make the call - and it would be my sister all the way. Good luck, my darling Shannon xxx


    joanne33

  23. joanne33

    From the other side of the coin, I would give my sister my eggs if she needed them and I am sure she would do the same for me xxx


    joanne33

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