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Paindora
Female, 52, Shreveport, LA
"You all are the strongest, most brave people I know"
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more thoughts on the liver lodge, ?s discussed and more Mood
Saturday, November 21, 2009 | A Positive story

Hi Jane, I have spoken with several lawyers, there are many schools of thought, one is if you are a non profit reg charity, you have to have and follow strict rules, the founder can get voted out in as little as 2 years, you are subject to local zoning, codes and other weirdness that could make it a real paperwork chore.  I have had several documents drawn up to cover basics, worksheets, questionairs, agreements (like, I promise not to punch anyone if I am on riba rage) rules like that, house rules, programs and such, most will fly as written, there is some state rules (and I dont know what state it is going to be yet) that will have to be addressed.

We are working with several people to see if we can do this the way I have in mind, we may have to be outside the city limits, yet close enough to medical support.  There are millions of little things that must be confirmed first, no sense in doing anything until we know it can be done.

As far as the money, you are correct when you state that most corporations will not donate money to charities not registered, however, I have spoken to several CEOs, CFOs and presidents suggesting that instead of a grant, or gift, that it is more of a partnership, an expense for them, they like that for many tax reasons and there is less paperwork for them and us.  I want to make it simple.

Some of the donations will be a one time only deal, like large screen TVs, furniture, appliances, etc. and some will need to be ongoing donations of money, medicines, transportation, food and such.. I am nowhere near being done with this but hope to be totally done by Spring and have a huge grand opening. We will have sponsors, volunteers (one area I am considering has a large Choctaw population that offered work/labor/services and really dont know that much, they are so sweet... We will see how it all works out. 

I just get so excited about the grand opening, having people arrive and settle in, visit, enjoy the walking paths, the ponds, the workshops, art/craft room, and gardens.  It could turn into a money making concern if there are enough of us that can create things, grow top quality herbs, vegetables for 4 and 5 star restaurants, or sell them at a fruitstand, raise fish, sell them fresh, grow pumpkins for the fall, have a horse and sleigh ride through the property all lit up with solar powered star lights in winter, who knows? It could be a blast or it may not work out at all because of a code that only allows 5 people to live in one house or something.  I love everyones suggestions and am open minded to all thoughts on the subject.

I just know the main thing will be takng care of people going through this treatment and have nobody to help them out, they need support, reminders to take pills, shots, drink water, eat, exercise and friends that are there to help them with whatever they need. 

Well, I am off to lay down, I had a rough day, I hope to talk to you soon,

Cynthia

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  1. Barb99999999

    wow I didnt really think you were so serious about this,this is great.


    Barb99999999

  2. Paindora

    I have hit a few road blocks, but I will either go around, over, under or through them, I guess I have had such a hard time that I want to help anyone in the same situation. Plus, after treatment, some people just dont get their energy back and may not be able to work full time and run a household, so this would be a nice option. I have a list two pages long to do tomorrow... but I am taking today off to rest.


    Paindora

More More more support for the liver lodge it is taking offlll Mood
Thursday, November 19, 2009 | A General Update story
 am putting together a retreat in the mountains, it will need work, fixing up and protection, it will have a large main house with ten or more cottages, we will be taking care of people on chemo for Hep C durig the most horrible treatment ever. ?There are thousands of people that dont have anyone to help care for them, make sure they eat, get to the dr, take their pills and things that are impossible, I will be begging the money from large drug companies and corporations, asking for donations, grants and volunteers, but of course some people will be paitents and others will be former paitents and want to stay, hang out and volunteer, like a commune.  I am working on all the set up now, like what ifs and what do we do if this happenes... sort of things. there will be a pond full of fish, a garden full of veggies, a work shop full of stuff to create, a media room for movies and kareoke, an outdoor firepit for night times, a library full of the classics, art classes, stain glass, wood working and fun stuff...
Most people have to go through this hell for a year, there is no way a person should do this alone.  We are going to have walking paths with benches with memorials of people that didnt win the war, trees planted in their honor to live on and help the earth breathe, a barn with chickens, eggs, raise fish in the ponds, hydroponically grown herbs and vegetables, fruit and nut trees and a fruit stand when things are ripe, ways to earn money for the cause.'
I am actually going to try to use the bill of rights and the us constitution to see if we can make things work out. There will be counseling, friendships and support.
What do you think?  so many decisions, things that must be done upfront,, agreed to and legal things I would rather not think about...
any suggestions....
Cynthia


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  1. rbm

    WOW! TO plan this up, while under the influence of tx! You are AMAZING Cynthia!!!


    rbm

  2. Barb99999999

    I know being alone this is hard on you, hugs


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  3. JaneD

    This sounds marvellous my dear - but first you'll need to see a lawyer - I think you will need to become a registered Charity. Corporations won't give to individuals - or very rarely: they might cough up if you are Registered, as they get Tax Credits on the money donated. Sorry to sound so overpractical, but it alll has to be done in the right way. That's how things work here, & I suspect it's pretty much the same in your part of the world. Fond regards, JaneD.


    JaneD

I went to the dr again today adn they changed my meds, they wnt to see me in a week, if my lungs dont clear up, I my have to get on anti  biotics, I cant type tonight, I must be too tired.

 

I sure am happy you all are here

 

Is there anyone in the shreveport area hugs to you aoo

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  1. Barb99999999

    sorry your having such a tough time


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  2. pgreen

    we are prayting for your complete and total recovery.

    Love and hugs,
    Phil


    pgreen

  3. debbear

    Take care of yourself honey.............Hope you're feeling better SOON!!!


    debbear

  4. Mckenzie

    Sending you healing vibes hunni.


    MckenzieCommunity Leader

  5. LeftWing

    keep letting us know what is going on, we are praying for you and worry about you as well.


    LeftWing

  6. rbm

    You will make it through this!!!


    rbm

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