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Ok..so whats happening here...My Father died in August..I was with him..and no grief for him as it was what he wanted..but I havnt had any time to grieve as I have a brother with Learning Difficulties..my Father was his Carer..now that responsibility fall to me.It doesnt help being 80 miles from him. The administration of my Fathers estate..and sorting out my brothers situation..is hard work..and stressful because of the worry of my brother being at risk. Not an easy time is an understatement. But on the positive side I am looking after myself..and have some "me" time..so all is not lost..but I feel very lonely having all this to sort and not having any family or friends who have been in the same position or who can help. It really gets me down sometimes. But I am able to bounce back up..luckily. Makes me realise that there is noone there for me. But I just have to get on with it. Hope it gets better soon. If there is anyone out there who cares for an adult at a distance it would be great to hear from them.
