Long week!!
August 8, 2008 10:39pm
Ugh my stbx shows up last week to see the kids after not seeing them for 2 1/2 months besides 2 hours on fathers day. Starts saying how …
Goal Completed on Jul 17, 08
chard
4:27pm, November 22, 2008
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About Me
chard
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Interests
My kids. Love them to bits. Really love going to the park with them, hanging out watching movies, just watching them play and everything in between. Love hanging out with my sister and her kids and her boyfriend. Hanging out with my friends when I have the time , wish there was more time to spend with them. School, looking forward to starting and finishing it so I can get a good job and be financially independent. Reading , writing journals and letters mostly to myself. Watching movies. Being out doors , camping , going for walks , relaxing in the sun. Making my home mine, it's a slow process as the is a lot of work and little time and money to do so. But every little bit I accomplish makes me feel a bit better.
My kids. Love them to bits. Really love going to the park with them, hanging out watching movies, just
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Shit!!
August 5, 2008 2:56am
I put myself in these situations wher I get hurt. Or more like I hurt myself by getting into it. I can't even get up the streanth to talk about …
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I'm good
July 17, 2008 9:19pm
Their is no more need to have no contact rule!!! YAY!!! I'm emotionaly detached from him. I do not feel thretened by him, I know he does not want …
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Today
July 4, 2008 9:12pm
Well today was a good day! Hung out with my sister and our kids. I have 4 and she has 2 and 2 step daughters only one step daughters live with her …
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WOW, It all makes sence.
July 2, 2008 4:43pm
Today my son had a DR's appointment, had to get all the kids ready and on the bus. Well they changed all the buses around down town and I got off …
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Support Groups
Close Single Parenting
chard hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Close Codependency
Treatments
- Talking Working / Worked
- I have a woman's support group I attend and this subject comes up often
Open Physical & Emotional Abuse
Treatments
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- I can forgive him for abusing me , but i can not forget if he does not get help
- Leave Working / Worked
- not being around him, he cant hurt me.
Open Depression
Type: Post Partum DepressionHad post partem deprtion for my children, the firt was by far the worst. But it tore my marriage apart. m now seperated for 8 months no longer am depresed but want my family back together.
Treatments
- Effexor Working / Worked
- Did not work made it worse
- Paxil Working / Worked
- It worked so well, but thought I did not need it cause I hate med and stopped so I was still depressed but not as bad
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- Thats what is getting me through right now
- Writing Working / Worked
- it helps alot, just write it an paper and feel a lot better and toss it
Open Healthy Relationships
chard hasn’t entered any details for this support group.Open Families & Friends Of Addicts
Treatments
Open Breakups & Divorce
Been seperated from my x for a year and 3 months. He has completely abandoned our 4 children and moved across the country. We have not seen him in 6 months. Phone calls are getting more and more rare. And I worry about him everyday. He is involved with very bad people and does some very bad drugs. But I am doing what I need to do to take care of my children and move on with life.
Treatments
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
Open Parenting Big Kids (5-8)
Treatments
- Education (School) Working / Worked
- School keeps them busy.
- Listening Working / Worked
- It is nice to sit down to dinner and hear about there day.
- Patience Working / Worked
- Having 4 children that are so young takes so much patirnce.
Open Healthy Sex
Hope to have a good healthy active sex life one day LOL
Treatments
- Patience Working / Worked
Open Smoking Addiction & Recovery
I smoke a lot well in my opinion a pack a day on a bad day, 10 a day on a good day. Started when I was 14. I have quit a few times during pregnancy and once when I was taking lorazopam for depretion. My goal is to guit so I can be healthy and avoid future heath risks and so I can jog for longer periods of time with out it taking 10 mins. to recover when I'm done my jog and also so my children do not start when ther older as well.
Treatments
- Nicotine Patch Somewhat Helpful
- Tried it worked for a bit but then I started going throw a separation with my x and sied screw it...
- Willpower Working / Worked
- When I was pregnant it worked well.
Open Parenting 'Tweens (9-12)
My son is 9 years old
Treatments
- Education (School) Somewhat Helpful
- He has a hard time at school and is behind.
- Patience Working / Worked
- He's just a normal 9 year old
Open Parenting Preschoolers (3-5)
I have a 3 year old and 5 year old and 2 older children.
Treatments
- 1-2-3 Magic Working / Worked
- Child Time-out Working / Worked
- Education (School) Working / Worked
- 5 year old goes to school but is very shy.
- Patience Working / Worked
- Have to have lots when you have 4 kids lol
Open ADHD / ADD
Just getting started with testing for my 9 year old for ADD and my 7 year old for ADHD. As I read this paper I need to fill out I can't help but to feel like a falure , as it seems like I can not disipine my children properly cause they behave the way the do. I feel like I should be able to fix this. All the qustions on the paper I can cheak a big yes to :( for them.
