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tosca 
well here goes. I am very scared and confused about my mariage. My husband leaves me and i have to raise three small kids alone. Sometimes he sends me money and other times he did not get enough on his check this time. i went to child support service and now i wait on th next step. He says that he wants to work out the marriage. i do love him but how do i know if this is what he really wants and that the next time he is stresssed out he won't get up and leave withut me having a clue anything was wrong? my baby girl is 4mos now and he has only seen her twice. he is in the restaurant business and decided to change restaurants so he would be less stressed out and work on the marriage. i am in birmingham,al and he is in tennessee he does not want to move here and i am too scared to move back to tennessee. i don't know what to do.
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oh honey only you can decide what to do ..but i believe everyone deserves a second cnance xx
ladyglitter
tosca, If he is wanting to re commit himself to you and the children his test to prove his commitment and love is to stop being selfish and move to Birmingham and not to put you and the chidren thru any more than he already has. If His decision is to stay in Tenn. Trust me you saved yourself alot of trouble. Because he still is not commited enough. Put your foot down you have rights and you do not have to follow him around. Dont allow him to come and go as he pleases. He messed up see if hes willing to fix it. Make him show you how commited he is now. Not just tell you. Actions speak louder than words. And in the long run he'll respect you more. I hope this helps and if you would like to talk more im here.
Nichol1977