Thank you so much for your insight. My problem is the guilt feeling of not being able to make this relationship work. I don't like being on the outs with other people. Dr. Phil says how do you expect a different result, when you're going the same thing over and over. I know I'm beating my head against a wall because it's been going on for years, with no resolve. I have stopped talking to him and going over, just he has was of things getting back to me. I DO NEED TO GET A TOUGHER SKIN, like you said. Bill's favourite saying is, " I don't get mad, I get even " and he does too !
I have new Cornwall cemetery information to take with us on Friday to Brantford. I'm excited to go back down and take more pictures. Genealogy is truly a jigsaw puzzle. We'll be able to find out more about the two baby Jack Cornwalls and where they are buried plus, there funeral records. I'm also looking forward to buying that book with my Great Uncle in it, the next book will have my grandfather and my uncle in it as well. All three of them died, they were only, 22, 23, and 35 years old, what a pity. Waris just terrible for the lives lost, even now.
Have to get ready for bed, tomorrow comes early.
I'm uploading the book cover in my picture section,also the cemetery stone. It would copy to the journal. The names in blue are my relatives .
Age Shall Not Weary Them
The Men of East Elgin Who Made the Supreme Sacrifice in the First Great War
by James L. McCallum
This 300-page book details the lives of about 150 men from the Townships of Malahide, Bayham, South Dorchester, and the Town of Aylmer who died while serving their country during World War 1.
Full of genealogical, biographical and military history, this book also contains hundreds newspaper articles on these men and their families, and many letters from overseas that were printed in the local paper. Photographs of these heroes are included where available.
The book will be launched on Saturday, October 18, 2008 from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Elgin Military Museum, 30 Talbot Street, St. Thomas, Ontario.
The cost of the book is $25 (shipping extra) and will available for sale at the Elgin Military Museum and through Elgin OGS.
INDEX of Names in the Book, with page #
Anger, Owen James 244
Antill, Wallace 36
Armstrong, John William 167
Badgley, Frank 249
Bain, James Lawrence 171
Baker, Oswald 250
Ball, Frank Milton 226
Ballah, Orlo Grant 38
Banford, Allen 251
Barker, Albert 220
Barker, E. 39
Barnes, William 59
Benner, Harry Arnold 246
Benner, Murray J. 57
Benson, Donald Good 60
Blashill, Harry Arthur 40
Branion, John Harrison 45
Breay, Edward Christopher 243
Brierly, Philip John 170
Brinn, Frank 169
Brooks, Fred Levern 62
Brown, Frank J. 214
Brown, Walter Everard Alway 242
Burgar, Russell Hugh 252
Burnham, Harley Edmond 44
Burroughs, Cecil Andrew 252
Campbell, Emerson 192
Capern, Percy Goodman 253
Cascadden, Emerson 254
Chipchase, Ernest 234
Christie, Robert Wm. Ewart 64
Claire, W. H. 63
Clarke, Guy Hanford 255
Cole, James Henry 257
Cooke, Frederick 211
Corbin, Arthur Bertram 238
Corbin, Reginald 235
Cornwall, Ryheo Morgan 258
Cracknell, John William 261
Craven, Richard Lazenby 262
Crawford, Charles Bruce 232
Doan, David Leslie 70
Drummond, Charles 245
Dunning, John Cameron 71
Eakins, Albert Graham 172
Elworthy, Charles Ernest 75
Firby, Herman Delbert 263
Flueling, Manley Benson 76
Forbes, Charles Arthur 77
Fright, Edward James 79
Garner, Orion 80
Gatward, Roland 81
Grant, Robert Carlton 174
Gunn, Arthur John 221
Haight, Clark Leslie 87
Haight, William Henry 88
Hamilton, Douglas Kipp 90
Hare, James Arthur 91
Harris, William 215
Hatch, Clarence Spencer 263
Hatch, John Edwin 203
Henry, William Rupert 264
Hollingworth, John 207
Hopkinson, Mervyn MacDonald 176
Johnston, Mark St. Clair 233
Johnston, Russell 194
Kaar, Garfield 265
Kallar, Roy 266
Kennington, Charles Edward 101
Kilmer, Frank 99
Kirkby, John Brower 177
Kneller, Thomas Charles 267
Lauthers, Robert 196
Lawrance, Ian McLeod 106
Learn, Frederick Harding 103
Light, Thomas Henry 109
Locker, Clarke Burns 197
Lockman, Lewis Austin 178
Luton, William Franklin 268
MacDonald, Donald 221
Mackenzie, Clarence 270
Mann, Arthur Birdsall 120
Mansfield, James 271
Marlatt, Walter Earl 180
Martin, William Edgar 272
Matthews, Harry Clifford 216
McCallum, Archibald 272
McConnell, Frank 234
McDonald, Harold Gordon 273
McEwan, Charles Robertson 122
McGrath, William Cecil 274
Methuen, Arthur Paul 110
Miles, Joseph Carroll 199
Mitchell, Ephraim Davis 111
Moore, Alvin 245
Moore, Gordon Earl 117
Mott, Andrew Evans 118
Murphy, John Herbert 179
O’Neill, William James 128
Orton, Claude Elmer 123
Pearson, Erwin 181
Peters, Archibald Nellis 275
Phillips, Cornelius Victor 223
Pound, Orlo Lydia 129
Prosser, William 137
Prowse, Cecil Graden 131
Prowse, Verne Turrill 131
Pulham, Edwin Bryan 200
Purkiss, Harold George 139
Ransome, James Maxwell 222
Raven, Harold 183
Raymond, Louis 148
Rhodes, Frederick Milburn 275
Richardson, Albert Thomas 141
Richardson, William Petrie 146
Richey, Robert Edwin 276
Robbins, Walter Lorne 276
Roberts, Arthur Frederick 140
Robinson, Cecil John 278
Robinson, Edward Arthur 185
Robinson, Stanley Daniel 278
Rogers, George 279
Roloson, Charles William 279
Sadler, Leslie Harold 281
Scott, Howard Elliot 216
Searls, L. J. 209
Sebring, Charlton 282
Simpson, Harry 149
Smith, Thomas McGregor 284
Smith, William 208
Southgate, Christopher 227
Sprague, Neil 283
Startup, Charles Edward 151
Stevens, Howard Clayton 212
Stoner, Avery Tilson 284
Taylor, James Thomas 286
Thompson, Harry Newton 154
Thompson, William Arthur 217
Thomson, Clinton Charles 228
Timpany, Bartholomew John 152
Turner, William 155
West, Arthur 188
West, Lewis Edgar 188
West, William James 188
Westbrook, Charles Henry 157
Wharton, Thomas 287
Wickham, William Gordon 159
Williams, Alex 190
Wilson, Edwin Garfield 288
Wilson, Frederick Rameses 218
Winnington-Ingram, Francis H. 95
Youell, Arthur Warren 159
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