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pgreen 
1:39pm, October 23, 2009
Yesterday was a lesson in appreiation and humily. I appreciate that I am away from the toxic, cruel and bottomless pit of selfishness. I am humble that I have my health and sanity after ALL I have been through.
My lawyer is like " I know why you left to CR, I would go as far away as possible from her ".
What an excuse for justice. We spent /wasted 3 hours going back and forth, around and around over stupid and insignifcant accusations she "thinks". So, the judge says, " Can you prove any of these accusations"? " No, but I just know that" , she responds . Ok than prove them!
The judge gave her sufficent time and rope to make the noose and put it on...
Really pathetic, to be victumized and slandered and I have to stomach and listen to all these lies.
Like we know she has a history of paranoid and probably multi personality history, so let's talk reality and facts.
I have no idea of the karmic payback for me going on here, but THY WILL BE DONE .
I was so angry I told my lawyer, she wants to screw me and I should supply the implements for further abuse too ( language is cleaned up; for those with street savy you can imagine the words)
She alledged," well, if he can fly back and forth he must have extra funds being secreted". DUH, can you say frugal living and ability to save !
Sorry for mt spewing, I am not drinking or compulsively stuffing my face so I have to let the feelings just seep out . Thanks for listening. I wonder if my lawyer had a few stiff ones after he went home last night :)
Love and hugs to you my friends, thanks again
Still Phil and still SERVING MY HIGHER POWER IN FAITH and HUMILITY
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Phil: You have a lot to go through, and I am sorry. I went through similar things with my ex. I lost out and it has taken me 7 years or so to get back on my feet, but it will happen for you too. You remain in my thoughts and prayers. Wally
wallyw44
What a total bitch she is, first she demands you come here, then accuses you of having more money that she can have for nothing, Phil, you got to fight that nightmare, at least the Judge seems like he sees that she is insane... I hope. You had to come back, it had nothing to do with the ability to, or able to afford it, what a total bitch she is... dont let that poison seep into your world just celebrate that you no longer have to be around it.
God Bless
Paindora
What a horrendous day in court! Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in this struggle. Remember, Thy will be done. You'll get through it.
Cathy
katznbearz
My words will always stand strong,as they do relate to your situations,as they do basic lIFE
What goes around,Shall Come around>>>Those who insist on doing harm,negativity to another shall+indeed reap all they sow.It may not be today/tomorrow,yet IT COMES
Those with cold ice running thru their veins shall have no comfort,ever>> They will NEVER rest
shamanwolf
Glad you can vent. Sorry you have to go through this as the old song goes "Breaking up is hard to do" sometimes it's a royal nightmare. Keep being honest, check your motives, have compassion, and trust God. With those things you'll have a reasonable chance of making it out of this with both arms and legs. xoxo
Gabrador
Sorry it's so horrible for you Phil..you are such a kind , thoughtful and thoroughly decent person, you really don't deserve this. However, my belief is that we learn from adverse times such as this...I've had a few very negative people to deal with recently, who have been so unkind to me, despite the fact my husband died only three weeks ago... Some people will just not lay off.
It will work itself out eventually Phil,so try not to get too wound up about it as your health will suffer, and she has caused you enough pain already. You are in my prayers..Diana
twilightmoon
I'm sure your lawyer had a few stiff ones, but I know your Higher Power didn't. So hold on tight & it'll be alright.
XxO
softraingirl