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ShanG 
12:47pm, January 12, 2010
Hey, here I am again. I am updating my journal for those of you who read this and for my friends out there. Haven't been on here in awhile. My son's father is incarcerated for parole violation and for charges against him from me, my new man, my apt. complex, and also one of the maintenance men. There were incidents involving him harrassing me and and tormenting me by using our son. He stole him from me and refused to return him violating our open visitation agreement. After about two weeks, I received the paper from the Friend of the Court with the official seal saying that I have primary physical custody. He had seen my new man in my apt. and tried to use everything against me including child neglect for having boxes around the house while I am still getting settled and for sexual abuse cuz my man had just woken up and came to check the door which he had snuck into my building ringing someone else's doorbell. My son has never been exposed and my boyfriend is always dressed around my son except for that time. Nothing held, of course. When I finally got him back, it was because he had put my son in my arms so he could see me (I had a civil witness, my man, and a girlfrind with me) and he tried to take him back. Once I had Kallel in my arms, it was over with. He tried to chase me around the vehicles and pull me out of the car when I was finally able to get in. Afterwards, he kept coming to the complex trying to take him to "daycare". Ha, as if I would allow him to take my son from me again. He has done more mental damage to my child than anything else. So, one day he comes and I tell him I will allow a group hug because I wasn't going to let him run off with him and he tries ripping him out of my arms grabbing around the ribcage, knowing he has severe hemophilia. What an asshole. Anyway, I screamed for someone to call 911 and for help, luckily my man was there and all the maintenance men came and some of the neighbors. He was circling me trying to keep me from getting into an apartment, my own, or any other. Anyway, he almost got his butt whipped and the police came. He now has domestic violence against me and assault and battery against my boyfriend. I am not sure about the apartment complex or the maintenance man, what is going on with that. Anyway, on a friend's comp., and she needs to use it so gotta go. Talk to ya later.
