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noturaverage 
4:46am, October 24, 2008
1pm Sunday afternoon here.
This morning I was completely fucked off with everything. Excuse the swearing, but thats how I feel/ Felt.
I am failing the parent thing. My horrid kids are walking all over me and I honestly dont know how much more I can take of it.
We were sitting in mass this morning, and my 3and a half year old twin boys thought as per usual that they would be naughty. I felt very shamed, as one of them yelled out fuck you mum.
I was crying inside, and had to try and hold the tears back from rolling down my cheek.
It was the longest hour I've ever had. I feel so agitated by the kids, they always seem to fight disobey me etc...................
When I try to put stratergies in place for them, but no one gives a toss and carries out as normal(little devil kids).
It's always about I want, from them of course and I am a bit sick of it all.
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Sory to hear your having such a bad time with your kids. Parenting can be a HARD JOB. I found that if my kids are geting an equal amount of love and disapline and things are still going wrong then its time to sit down and find out the reasons why it isn't working, with teachers, friends, parents etc anyone else that has an influence on your kids bad behaviour. When you find out the reason, change it. Work together as parents even get profesional help, otherwise it will get worse. Im rushing this sorry. Im here if you want to msg me, kids can be a nightmare, I realy feel for you. At certain stages in my parenting i found that it was in my top 3 list of hell, Parenting, Alcoholism, Drug addiction. Good luck, MIchael
Micall
It is so hard and i wish you would give yourself some credit. You have a lot of kids and you do it all by yourself that alone is a HUGE accomplishment. kids definately test your boundaries My girls are 4 now and there behavior is absolutely awful they swear at me, hit me, spit at me and absolutely destroy things. Like you I am at my wits end, the only difference is I'm not on my own. I feel for you I truly do I hope things calm down soon and you are feeling better.
SKMM