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Testycatlady 
10:06am, November 6, 2009
Some people are just oblivious to how their comments on this sight can be hurtful to others. Either that, or they are just being mean.
I am sick of it. I mentioned to one person, whom at one time I respected, that I found her post to be hurtful, and offencive to those with family members that are Mentally Challenged. I did this in a polite fashion. Not only did she get offended at me for being honest, she refuses to acknowledge that her post could possibly be hurtful, and instead acussed me of being a trouble maker, and doing this to bug her.
I am sick of seing such selfishness amoung certain people on here. And now, not only has her attitude pissed me off, but I am seing others I once respected, posting such disrespectful or nasty threads that I find derogetory, as if they are thumbing their nose at me for being hurt.
I now realize, that if they can be that uncaring and oblivious to the hurt I feel over it, then they are not friends at all. After all, I have been open on this forum about my uncle. I even posted a while back about how I actually look up to him for all his accomplishments. For them to act this way, just cuts me like a knife.
I guess it is time to weed out my friends list.I have already removed one. I am considering removing a few others who are also refusing to acknowledge how this behaviour is hurting me. It will be hard, because they are people I USED to respect, and care about. I however, have lost all respect for them after this.
Hopefuly, I will be able to get over this soon. I don't need this shite at this time. The extra stress is not helping me heal from my surgery.
End of cry.
Comments
hello luvvy,
HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND F**K THEM EXCUSE THE LANGUAGE I DONT USE VERY MUCH UNLESS I'M REALLY ANGRY AND THIS SITE ARE FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE HURTING IN WHICH YOU ARE AND YOU HAVE MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS WITH YOU.
DONT WORRY ABOUT THOSE PEOPLE IF YOU WEIGH UP WHO YOUR FRIENDS ARE I BET YOU HAVE MORE THAN YOU THINK.
YOU DONT NEED THIS YOU'VE HAD SURGRY AND YOU NEED NOT BE STRESSED....
SORRY FOR SHOUTING....BUT I FILL BETTER NOW.
YOU TAKE CARE MY FRIEND
LORRAINE
lolly49
I'm sorry this happened to you. I understand how you feel. I try to be fairly guarded on the site and most internet sites as this is not necessarily uncommon.
I think people don't really choose to be concerned for others because they can't see them with their eyes. I guess that's just my opinion.
Hugs (((((Testy))))
Whisperingsprings
Some how I came across your profile.... And I could'nt help but read your journal, I do sympathize with you, on this matter, I've been so deeply hurt by people here on daily strength,that I left a few time and came back.My mistake . But I never joined that group again. It's sad, but there are some mean, cruel, evil people on here.""DON"T LET THEM RUN YOU AWAY """, Just delete them ! And block the others ! Sending support ! Hugs & Prayers,Jobbie
Jobperson
yes people can be very horrible. i thought that here i would be safe but i was wrong, there are bad people everywhere.
sorry you have been hurt.
i hope people treat you better and don't make you feel worse.
depression is hard enough without BITCHES making it worse.
sorry you feel bad
xxx
defective3
hi there, came across your journal entry..i was recently disrespected on here as well. it was embarassing and hurtful, and took me a bit to get over. I'm sorry that you have had the same experience..take care
lk1980
Sadly, there are rude people - not just on DS. Just ignore them.
My motto is:
Don't let the turkeys get ya down. Thanksgiving is right around the corner - and we all know what happens to turkeys then, right?
Hang in there!
Hugs
Chris
ChrisAz