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Testycatlady 
10:06am, November 6, 2009
I just wish people would stop spreading malice about me, and calling me a liar. They have no clue what I have gone through... yet are so mean to me... and they call themselves Christian? No real Christian I know, would ever behave the way they are... It is all just so sad.
If I do not want to respond to their grilling, can they not use their brains and think for a moment that heck... she just got out of the hospital a while ago, and up from her sick bed, and that maybe I am still ill, and not up to answering their demands for more info? Can they not use their brains and think that hey... this is a public board, and anyone can read it, and that maybe I did not want certain friends to know just yet everything, on account that I do not ever want them to worry, until I myself have all the results?
No! ? They don't apparently use their brains. Instead they react suspiciously and attack to the point that they have hurt not only me, but others in our community who have experienced the same or similar problems or difficulties in recovery that I have. And these are people who call themselves Christian?
No one can read my mind and know my thoughts and feelings, or anyone else's thoughts or feelings for that matter. Therefor no one should behave the way those women did on the board toward me. It certainly is not true Christian behaviour described in the Bible. And it certainly is not behaviour condoned by DS. And they wonder why people on here are starting to dislike them, when they act so hateful?
And then these same women act all injured when they get into trouble with DS... Never have I campaigned against them, as they frequently do with me, directly on the board, or on their posts. And yet they paint me the villain? I wonder how they would feel if people treated them on here, they way they often treat me? It is all so sad and painful it just makes me want to cry.
Yes... I have reported them. At least I am doing things the way we are asked to by DS, and not taking things onto the board to stir up trouble as they have. Only one post was put up by a friend in order to show proof, that not all cancers are treated the same in all countries... thats all. Yet they themselves have put up posts talking about people lying, and alluding very obviously to me... And they call themselves nice, and me nasty? And some people actually support them in this?
WHAT IS THE HECK WRONG WITH THIS PICTURE?
Sorry about this rant... I am just feeling so ill, and hurting so much over the abuse I've had to deal with on here... a support site.
HUGS for all who care...
Comments
i am sorry for your hurts. i am here for you. just know that. and you had better rest, so that the healing can take place. take care
hotdogalice
life is like a bus ride on a busy street - there are lots of jerks.
OldManBear
Ya know, Testy? I'm really pissed at these people. I think they know who they are. You did right, ignore, report, delete. You have safety in our group. If they harass they will get banned and reported. The same thing here, they are going after COLEEN more than me. Yes they say they are Christians. But anyone can say that. what is ccoming from their mouths is unrighteous. It is hard to ignore, me, I wanr to kick butt, but what can you do? Nothing. It is a stinking computer. DS has little cliques, or pockets of bad guys. Trouble is, they get banned, they come right back as someone else. If it is OK, I will say a prayer in the group for you. We love you in Christ. Write any time you get this stuff. I am VERY much a warrior. Wally
wallyw44
Oh my Gosh !
Testy don't let these people take your power. You know there are Christians that are bottle feed and there are Christians that read the word of God themselfs. Testy Christians are sinners everyday. Each one is on a different level. But the most important thing is to wash your hands and stomp your feet and be done with such foolish acts.
"Don't let them take your power!"
NothingAtAll
I don't think the ones that youj are talking about claim Christianity At least as far as I can remember from the latest thread. Anyway, feel better soon. Don't do to much, you may feel better but your body needs time to heal..
ZAZAS
My mom had ovarian cancer, had a complete hysterectomy and nothing else. She was cancer free after that as far as I know. Please, you know what is true. Those that don't believe just don't know that sometimes just removing the tumor or precancerous cells is all that is required. I had precancancerous cells, they were removed, and I have had no further problems since.
Don't listen to those that don't have anything nice to say. They are just not informed, not up on all the different treatment options for all the different types of cancers out there.
Hugs honey! Believe in yourself! You are a wonderful person, believe that!
BeckyK
There are always someone or more in a group that just have t make a large sound!
HILLY
I think that just stop talking to those people who make u upset , cause showing it just gives fuel to the fire. Tc of you and your in my thoughts, from a lady who consdiers herself a Good person and believer in God.
HILLY
I believe you and so does Ashley. I know it is the truth and pray for a quick recovery and that you pain will be less and less each day.
crazy12many
How Christ-like of them indeed >:/
Sabishi
It is to bad that a few bad apples have to ruin the bushel!!! No two people recover alike. God bless you for sharing as much as you have. You are indeed an inspiration to those of us who have dealt with health issues and come out of them successfully.
Rest and give your body time to recover. No surgery is ever easy and it takes time to recover completely. Take care my friend and know that you are in my prayers.
Debbie
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