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yoyo72 
My husband has been on a down hill skid lately. It's like riding a roller coaster. You never know where you stand with him. I know it's not his fault. His medical condition makes him this way but it doesn't excuse the name calling and the put downs. Sometimes, I think that I should just take the kids and go. He is better today. He hasn't yelled or called anyone names.
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Boy I understand that. I feel like I am walking on eggshells all of the time. My husband left on Dec 30th. It seems like on Holidays we're fighting. Then he'll come back like nothing ever happened. Then we go through it again. He calls me names but most of all, when he goes off on me, my insides just go down, down, down and I want to run, run, run.
The only difference this time is I am determined not to live like this any longer. He is doing fine right now, because he is getting his way. He is under an extreme amount of pressure trying to get his business going. I listen to Joyce Meyer and have attended several of her conferences...through that I have learned so much. I've learned that we have a choice and it is our choice to be happy. That hasn't worked for me but when I have problems, I can do that...but when I have a husband yelling profanities at me, I sink back into my hole... Not sure what I'm gonna do yet.
janap
I lived the same hell for 16 years, My best advice is to take baby steps. It doesnt seem possible, but each day that you are not exposed to that kind of abuse, you get stronger! I PROMISE!
mrs. bax
the best to all you guys i cant say i know how you feel ive never been in your shoes.
greatgranny