ROB2211's Journal

I recently went to Hollidaysburg, PA where I officially sought custody of my kids or at least visitation of them.  I was granted partial custody of my two boys.  I got visitation the best I think I could get for now.  I was able to get them once a month except during the summer around baseball, where I will get them at the end of the summer after the season is done for two weeks to a month.  I also found out that my ex is pretty serious with her boyfriend after being separated from me for little over a year and divorced for about 8 months.  Come to find out her and the boys will be moving to Cleveland, OH.  The boys were suppose to start school on 8/26 but she contacted the school and said that she would not be moved in for the boys to start on time.  The school allowed her to start the kids on 9/2.  I was not aware of any of this until after the fact.  This is such BS.  I want the kids to have a stable environment but what kind of an environment is that to grow up in.  I want my ex to be happy even though it is not with me but she needs to think of the kids to too and not just herself.  With my health and the way the automobile accident has left me as far as having to use a walker and having so many problems with my back, I am beginning to wonder if I will ever find someone else that will be happy and vice versa.  I know this is sad to say but this is where my mindset is right now.  I know my ex always says I want you to be happy in every way, but I was.  She was the one who wasn't.  I learned things too late when I was in the hospital of April 2008 to be allowed to try and fix things.

My ex is wonderfully ticking me off enough now, that I am going to seek a lot more legal advice to resolve a ton of issues.  Stay tuned.

I am really trying not to let everything with my ex effect my mood.

Thank you all for your support and friendship.