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Goal End Date is Aug 15, 09 85 days ago.
veeachjay 
12:47pm Yesterday
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About Me
veeachjay
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About Me
I have been married for 20 years and have 2 kids, a 16 year old son & 10 year old daughter. They are my life. I used to be a special ed. teacher and stay-at-home mom but now I'm working in a retail store. I'm a Christian whose relationship with the Lord is good right now, even though I've been going through a lot of trials.
I have been married for 20 years and have 2 kids, a 16 year old son & 10 year old daughter. They are my life. I used to be a special ed. teacher and stay-at-home mom but now I'm working in a retail store. I'm a Christian whose relationship with the Lord is good right now, even though I've been going through a lot of trials.
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My life right now revolves around my kids, work and church. I don't have much time for anything else.
My life right now revolves around my kids, work and church. I don't have much time for anything else.
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haha everyone is answering the same questions :P
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Wait. You don't think I could get Clooney if I tried? You have no faith in my, sister.
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OMG Vicky! You are so right.. and I won't elaborate here as I don't want to disrespect him... but I do want a grounded and rooted relationship. I know it wont work any other way... I hope he seeks Godly counsel but the holy spirit is telling me, his pride is in the way and the enemy is holding his hand. This is a spiritual battle through and through... it's not mine to fight, I just have to get out of God's way and let him be in control. Goodnight Vickie.
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George Clooney.
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Vee, you are the best. You always have perfect timing with your hugs, I needed one. I am taking a little break from my packing. I hope you are having a good weekend. Big hug back at you.
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Support Groups
Close Pulmonary Embolism
I had a PE in Sept. 2007 Was in the hospital for 6 days. I will be on Coumadin indefinitely. Drs. think I may have Lupus. I get tired easily and have been feeling achy lately.
Treatments
Close Healthy Relationships
My husband is a habitual liar. This has been going on for many years and he has caused stress in our marriage and financial ruin. We've started counseling which may be our last hope.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- Went twice together, now getting individual
- Patience Not Working
- Considering I've been putting up with his lies for so many years, I think I have been very patient
- Prayer Working / Worked
- Makes me trust in God alone since I can't trust my husband
- Talking Not Working
- He's an extremely poor communicator
- Writing Working / Worked
- This is really helping me to see my feelings more clearly
Open Financial Challenges
For several years, we have been behind in our bills and getting further and further into debt. I blame my husband for his many lies and mismanagement of our money behind my back. He also tells me he's working and earning money when he's actually borrowing it. I'm not sure we will survive this.
Treatments
- Credit Counseling Not Working
- Told my husband to file for bankruptcy
- Cut Up Credit Cards Not Working
- They are maxed out
- Earn Money Too Soon to Tell
- We're both working full time
- Filing for Bankruptcy Not Working
- Husband only filed 2 years ago
Open Breakups & Divorce
I am separated from my husband to give him time to straighten himself out (see above). He had to move back home in June for financial reasons. Just want him to become a Godly person and father....may be too late as a husband.
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Not Working
- Forgiveness Not Working
- It's so hard to forgive and then be lied to again and again
- Leave Too Soon to Tell
- We are separated, but living together....lots of fighting and not talking going on
- Love Not Working
- I can't say I feel much for him now
- Music Working / Worked
- Listening to Christian music lifts my spirits
- Support from Friends & Family Too Soon to Tell
- I am opening up to others
- Talking Not Working
- Yelling is more like it....we have good days and bad
- Time Not Working
- This has been going on for years
Open Bereavement
Type: Loss of a RelativeMy 21 year old nephew, Kyle, passed away on Monday, June 23, 2008 due to injuries from a car accident. His best friend, Jeremy, was also killed. I've also lost both of my parents many years ago.
Treatments
Open Depression
Sometimes I just can't stop crying. I always thought I could handle it. My doctors have tried to put me on meds but I've resisted. I'm just unhappy in my circumstances and until those change I can't see a light.
Treatments
- Meditation Working / Worked
- Prayer helps...but it usually gets me crying even more.
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- I pretend I'm happy and I think I do a pretty good job of it.
- Writing Working / Worked
- It helps to get it all down...I hope to look back one day and see progress.
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Hi, my name is Vicki and I'm a DS addict.....
