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About Me
TammiS
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About Me
I am a mother of 2 gorgeous daughters. They are 15 and 12. My husband and I have been down this path before, actually Decemeber marks two years we have gotten back together after a six month split. We have decided it is not healhy to be together. It is not good for all parties involved.
I am a mother of 2 gorgeous daughters. They are 15 and 12. My husband and I have been down this path before, actually Decemeber marks two years we have gotten back together after a six month split. We have decided it is not healhy to be together. It is not good for all parties involved.
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I do everything in my power for my daughters. I am a full-time college student, I work full-time and I take care of my sick mom, so interests are there, but the time is not..
I do everything in my power for my daughters. I am a full-time college student, I work full-time and
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Recent Activity
November 14
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TammiS commented on Cyndi Sarnoff-Ross's article How do you know when your marriage is really over? 12:52pm
I wish someone told me this two years ago when my husband and I reconciled, today we are going down the…
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TammiS changed their mood to Bad 12:48pm
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TammiS asked for advice: down this road again in the Breakups & Divorce support group 12:45pm
I am not new to this website, I was on here about two years ago, but when my husband and I reconciled…
July 23
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TammiS turned 34 12:00am
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I haven't hugged you in a while.
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Hi Tammi, thanks for the hug. I hope that you are doing ok as well. Take care and know that I am here for you as well.
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Just read your journal and left a comment.
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Awe thanks I hope things are still going well with you.
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Support Groups
Close Breakups & Divorce
My husband of 13 years told me he wants to seperate. I noticed things changing with him as far as the way he treated me. I got the women's intuition and decided ti investigate my cell phone bill. I found that he has been texting with another woman and she told him she won't mess with a marries man. So here comes the speration. Now if hindsight was 20/20 I should have seen it coming. Now I am broken, depressed and sad. And still need to get my children't heads together. Any advice???
Treatments
- Ativan Working / Worked
- This is helpful to get me through stressful moments in a pinch.
- Forgiveness Too Soon to Tell
- I am not ready to forgive him for all the mean and rude things he has done to his daughters and I. I am slowly moving to the process of forgiving him for his selfish ways, but I need him to seek help before I do.
- Leave Working / Worked
- He left and it is like a dark cloud was lifed off of me and my daughters.
- Love Working / Worked
- I am still so in love even after all the mental and emotional abuse I have endured for years.
- Music Somewhat Helpful
- Although it makes me cry and makes me relate to much.
- Pets Working / Worked
- My dog is really helpful.
- Psychotherapy Somewhat Helpful
- I go once a week, but I think I hit a wall there. I don't know if it is the therapist. She is really quite in there and I need to talk and have questions asked of me that I never thought about.
- Reading Not Working
- I used to read all the time. I can't get into right now. I am hoping when he leaves I will get the enjoyment back of a good book.
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- My friends are all here for me.
- Support Groups Working / Worked
- DS is a HUGE help to me. It is so nice having people to talk to that have been through the same things as you.
- Talking Working / Worked
- I am having trouble dealing wih the thought of being alone so I try not to talk to much about it with my happily married friends.
- Time Somewhat Helpful
- Time is the healer. I know longer see him and bust into tears. I am becoming a stronger person.
Close Hysterectomy
I am 32 years old and have had women problems since I was 17. I had a partial hysterctomy in 2006 and the rest removed in summer of 07. I find it difficult to know I will never have anymore children.
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- Estratest Working / Worked
Open Parenting 'Tweens (9-12)
I have an amazing 10 year old daughter that is going through some rough times. Her father and I are seperating and she has disconnected from him.
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- Education (School) Working / Worked
- She Loves school
- Patience Working / Worked
Open Parenting Teenagers (12-18)
I have a 13 year old daughter who is going through the hardest thing in her life right now. Her dad and I are sperating for now. Although it is a trial seperation, my daughter has lost all respect for him.
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- Education (School) Working / Worked
- Loved school
- Patience Working / Worked
Open Eating Disorders
Type: AnorexiaHad an issue as a teen and I think it is rearing its ugle head again. My husband and I seperated and then reconciled, but I think that started the downward spiral
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- Support from Friends & Family Somewhat Helpful
- They don't understand and think it is controlable.
Open Healthy Relationships
My husband and I seperated for a few months and now he is back home. I am looking at getting as much insight as possib;e on building a healthy marriage again.
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