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  • About Me

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    thebestican

    Female, 40
    MD, USA
    Member since October 9, 2007

    • About Me

      I came here looking for support after recieving the phone call no one wants, my sister had been in a car accident. It was in the blink of an eye my whole life changed. I am married for 11 years to the most wonderful man ever. I have two wonderful children that I wonder everyday what I did to deserve them. They amaze me daily. My animals are a huge part of who I am.

      I came here looking for support after recieving the phone call no one wants, my sister had been in a car accident. It was in the blink of an eye my whole life changed. I am married for 11 years to the most wonderful man ever. I have two wonderful children that I wonder everyday what I did to deserve them. They amaze me daily. My animals are a huge part of who I am.

    • Interests

      Family, Animals, Reading, Close friends.

      Family, Animals, Reading, Close friends.

  • Recent Activity

    November 5

    September 16

  • Journal

    • No One will believe it anyway!!

      Mood July 15, 2009 10:50am

       

      I know this story sounds nuts.  I feel nuts saying it, but it truly 100% happened so I have to tell it.  My daughter was probably the …

    • Feelings leaking out of me

      Mood May 19, 2009 10:17am

       

      What stage is this?  I feel like I'm at the point where I am desperately trying to keep track of how old you are, you will be, the …

    • Journal Entry for November 14, 2008

      Mood November 14, 2008 1:34pm

       

       

      I'm not sure what's affecting me lately but the last couple days have been like walking through mud with boots on that are to big …

    • The very last day I'm sure I was with you

      Mood July 11, 2008 9:53am

      The twins birthday is Sunday it is exactly 5 days before the dreadful day and its hard to know that is the very last time I was with you.  I …
    • Happy 36th Birthday Steph! I love you.

      Mood July 3, 2008 10:27am

      Happy Birthday Steph!

       

      I hated to wake this morning knowing you were not physically here for me to say "Happy Birthday" to.  Then …

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  • Hugbook

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    • Hug

      From shandyH September 17

      Thanks so much for all your support! It is so great to have her home with me. I feel so very blessed. Lots of hugs, Sharon

    • Hug

      From mssunshine August 19

      thank you for your concern, I did have an issue and I am working on that right now and feeling pretty good about it. My kids are used to them being my everything and now I do understand there is a problem with me and I am taking care of me and they don't like it . It leaves less for them. I love them but I have to let them go. Please just keep them in your prayers.

      Bless you
      Trish

    • Hug

      From shandyH August 18

      Thanks for all your support! Hope all is well with you. Lots of hugs, Sharon

    • Hug

      From shandyH July 21

      We shall see:) The Dr. says that if natural labor doesn't start by the 17 then we will be taking the baby within that week. I am really hoping she comes when she is ready and hopefully not to late:)

    • Hug

      From shandyH July 21

      Thanks so much!! Take care of yourself and lots of hugs, Sharon

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  • Support Groups

    • Close Bereavement
      Type: Loss of a Sibling

      I lost my sister suddenly to a car accident on July 18, 07.  She left behind 3 beautiful children whom we are helping to care for.  Its very hard to grieve for her and keep moving with the kids, they are young and their grief is very different.  I miss her every minute of every day.

      Treatments

      Crying Working / Worked
      It helps, once it builds up and I cry to let it all out.
      Grief Counseling Somewhat Helpful
      I like to talk to people about my beautiful sister.
      Pets Working / Worked
      I had just gotten my little boy toy poddle 10 days before my sisters accident so I had to focus on getting him trained etc.  That did help a little.
      Prayer Working / Worked
      Prayer helps with anything but you have to remember to give it to god, which I forget sometimes.
      Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
      I never will let her children forget her so talking to them about her helps me some.
      Time Working / Worked
      I remember getting so angry when people said it gets better with time.  I said they don't know what this feels like, and most didn't.  But with time it does loose its intensity, I suppose once you get the news, you know it so the shock of hearing it and dealing with it lessons some. 
    • Close Diets & Weight Maintenance

      Treatments

      Weight Watchers Working / Worked
      Worked but I can't stick with it for some reason.
    • Open Obesity

      thebestican hasn’t entered any details for this support group.
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