Gardengirl44

Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/Spouse

A few years back I was very ill and on life support in a coma for along time, I could not walk or talk. I had tubes everywhere you could think of. When I woke up many months later I was so sick and had to start all over again learning everything believe it was so hard. My lungs were so damaged from the life support, from the peep. They put me on oxygen. My husband left me , he did not want to bother with a sick wife. A few years later I met a wonderful man who I loved and he just died.Please try

Treatments

Crying Working / Worked

Its a normal part of healing is to cry it helps you think and work out a soultion.

Grief Counseling Working / Worked

Yes it helps to talk to someone it gives you incite

Helping Others Working / Worked

I do alot of things with my grandson and by keeping busy with him it really takes my mind off of things.

Keeping Busy Working / Worked

If your doing others things it gives you something to focus on and takes the obsession away to think constantly about you loss

Prayer Working / Worked

Yes it helps to know that your loved one is in a place where they can be happy know more suffering, pain.

Reading Working / Worked

I read alot of grieving books and books about the otherside and believe me it really help me understand about death

Scrapbooking Working / Worked

Making a book with the person or persons pictures and happy times your family spent together is a good distraction from the negative part.