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I'm an emotional wreck!! Mood
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
 Went to court yesterday, They found the so called bio father of my Grandaughter. He and his wife seem nice enough, however I'm real leary. After all these years of never wanting to see her or anything else, he decides if this is his child he wants to be involved in her life and get visitation and the works. He even brought his Mother in law to court with the two of them! She kept voicing her opinion when I was trying to talk to them in the hallway. Who does she think she is? She has nothing to do with this! my grandaughter thinks her stepdad is her father, and doesn't even know who this person is. Then the MIL gets all huffy and tells me that if he is the father he has rights!! it took all i had to just ignore her! In any other setting I would have ripped her head off and spit down her neck!! I don't want to see my little grandaughter hurt anymore by anyone and will fight till my death  to stop it!! Man, these parents need to pay for all the garbage they alow these children to go through!! Anyway the DNA test was done and we will know by the end of the week, so I'm on pins and needles. We have gone through too much, they better not even think about trying to take her, after 8 yrs. I'm not sure they can.
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  1. BJ25

    oh hun i am so sorry that court sucked. i hope they cant take her from you. she needs family not strangers. and who the hell does does the MIL think she is? she is only the MIL i am proud of you for not ripping off her head i would have. but i am proud of you. let me know how the dna stuff goes ok?
    luv ya and hang in there hun.
    hugs Brandy~


    BJ25

  2. hja

    I hope and pray the DNA come back negative. Also, the courts need to do what's best for the child. I'm like you, I'd be leary also, after all these years. What's up with that. Just know I'm here for you to listen/help in any way you need. Definitely journaling about it is a healthy way of venting, although ripping the head off sounds kind of fun. lol. Helen


    hja

  3. Jade5

    Yea he knew...right that he had a child, but never did anything to see the child or pay child support!!!! Was he ever ordered to pay child support?
    What gets me is he knew he had a child....... he had to of that they had a name to go on, but didn't care all of these years!
    It is so hard not to ripe a bunch of heads off and poop down all there necks!!!!!!!!!!


    Jade5

  4. meandthebeast

    Sorry sweetie. praying for you and her.. keep us up to date please..


    meandthebeast

  5. cando2

    I too will be Praying for you and Granddaughter God Bless You.


    cando2

  6. DaffodilDaze

    Just to say I am thinking of you!


    DaffodilDaze

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