The sadness doesn't go away....
August 24, 2008 10:54am
I’ve been working on this for some time. I used to write my thoughts, religiously, but then it got too difficult. Sorta like goin’ back …
kat416 
7:24pm, October 20, 2009
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About Me
kat416
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About Me
married 17 years, 3 children My children are my strong points; they're my life. My husband is out to to achieve "most likeable" and at all costs. He thinks nothing of embarrassing me to make his "wish come true"/his "popularity to be greater than his marriage". Used to think I was "the luckiest girl" to marry the love of my life, now I think I would be better off finding somebody who loved me more than they loved themselves. I am so sad to be in a relationship with my husband and so many other women. I know I deserve better, I just don't want to let my children down; and, give up.
married 17 years, 3 children My children are my strong points; they're my life. My husband is out to to achieve "most likeable" and at all costs. He thinks nothing of embarrassing me to make his "wish come true"/his "popularity to be greater than his marriage". Used to think I was "the luckiest girl" to marry the love of my life, now I think I would be better off finding somebody who loved me more than they loved themselves. I am so sad to be in a relationship with my husband and so many other women.
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November 15
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kat416 commented on dptlpsher’s photo 7:22pm
oh, wow, the good 'ole days!!…
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kat416 turned 103 12:00am
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A crappy day
June 19, 2008 8:39pm
Well, it’s been a year…. A year. (Isn't it funny how you can forget a doctors appointment, but you will always remember discovery …
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At a loss
June 9, 2008 6:49am
I just want to be in love, be loved and be happy. How do you get all that at one time in this day & age? Do I leave the man I married (for better …
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WOW...
May 20, 2008 7:51pm
"The infidelity is that you took something that was supposed to be mine, which is sexual or emotional intimacy, and you gave it to somebody …
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little things that mean so much!!
April 23, 2008 6:45am
He rolled over a held me this morning!! Not a "huge" hold and not for long; but, one that meant everything. Oh, how I love his …
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Kat... yes.. I have to allow those moments and not kick myself so hard for not knowing how to deal with it. I have learned so many things in my life and this is one of the things that shows my weakness. I spent time last night thinking about this. I usually ignore it. I think I am becoming more aware of when my behaviors and reactions are not quite balanced to the situation or for a purpose of healing. I spent most of the day reading for pleasure- and did not write anything! The kids were great today and I enjoyed every moment I had. I have read quite a bit of a book that has been sitting in my "when I get a free moment" pile. Ah.... it was nice. Thank you for all your words. I appreciate them!
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Superhero Status
Hi kat just checking in.Im good.moving in with my new guy next week and things are great.thnikng of you my special pal.xx
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FINALLY!!!!! just paperwork now..!!!! what a long few years! Thank you for being by my side!
Miss You
Where is your SMILEY FACE??????
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