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combatgirl 
Man i just don't get it with some people like for me have i don't something wrong in my passed life to someone . As now my bestfriend has told me that her new love doesn't think that she should hang out with me anymore or talk to me as he wants her all to herself and she is goin along with it , i was told yesterday that she no longer can be friends with me cause of this guy . I was shocked and i keep thinking what have i done to deserve this from people that were suppose to be my friend .
I have also been thinking and i'm going to get skinny and stick it in these people faces as they think that i can't do this i'm going to show them , i told my mum about all this with what has been going on but she is now worried and i feel bad for worrying her as with what happened when i was 18, she thinks that i'm going to head back to being anorexic again but i know that i won't .
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Oh man, that is a terrible thing! Hopefully your friend will come around to the craziness of that idea sooner rather than later. Boy oh boy. My best friend HAD a partner like that. Tried to isolate her from all her friends and family. It was really just a control mechanism to keep her under the thumb. I hope this isn't the case with your friend...but my advice...even though it probably hurts a little now, lay low, see what happens, because it sounds like your buddy is getting herself into a situation where she's going to need a friend sooner than she probably thinks.
Midnitesea
I agree with Midnitesea, some people forget that friends are for lifetime while men can come and go. Unless your friend is being nasty or has completely started to ignore you, I would hang low and wait for her. She may have very low self esteem so a man wanting to spend all his time (and hers) with her then she may see this as a compliment, not realising she is destroying friendships. As for your weight loss, plleeeaaasseee only lose weight for yourself! What will happen if you become 'skinny' and don't get the reaction you want? I hope you sort things out. Good luck
aristess