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combatgirl 
Man i just don't get it with some people like for me have i don't something wrong in my passed life to someone . As now my bestfriend has told me that her new love doesn't think that she should hang out with me anymore or talk to me as he wants her all to herself and she is goin along with it , i was told yesterday that she no longer can be friends with me cause of this guy . I was shocked and i keep thinking what have i done to deserve this from people that were suppose to be my friend .
I have also been thinking and i'm going to get skinny and stick it in these people faces as they think that i can't do this i'm going to show them , i told my mum about all this with what has been going on but she is now worried and i feel bad for worrying her as with what happened when i was 18, she thinks that i'm going to head back to being anorexic again but i know that i won't .
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Don't you just hate it when you feel alone in the world . Like today for instance i worked up the courage to go back to the gym as i haven't been for 3 weeks but a few of the girls made fun of my weight , saying that i have put on alot of weight in 3 weeks which i haven't and even 1 of the girls from my group said gees can you feel the floor shake when i walked passed . It was hard enough going back there but to have that thrown in my face as well .
Then after that i just didn't feel like working hard in class as i felt parnaoid , wish they would have kept their opinions to themselves . It is things like this just make me think why do i bother .
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That's not at all what you needed! I can't believe other women there to stay in or get in shape would make fun of one of their companions... But this is the attitude that keeps me away from gyms - I am trying to tone myself up a bit for summer and don't know where to start, but the options are frightening, I'd rather go to the beach or play with my son than be put under such scrutiny!
Good on you for going back there - that took a lot of strength. If you go ready for the put-downs and maybe think of a clever response, or just ignore it, you might be able to keep your drive going through to you class...
I hope you don't let these women get what they want - they proabaly were jealous you had not put on weight in your 3 weeks off and wanted to knock the confidence you may be gaining from it... It's their problem - don't let it have an effect on you... I hope that you can get the result you want!
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I agree with stylishJ, I find it VERY immature when grown women use bitchy teen tactics to make themselves feel better. The best revenge is to simply rise above it and work out in your gym class to make yourself feel healthier and sexier. Perhaps they have issues at home and come to the gym to vent. Sad isn't it? I salute you for venturing back into the gym after having a break, I wish I had your confidence!!!!!
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thank you ladies for your support and yea that is exactly that they are teenagers in womans bodies , a few of my friends there have had the same sort of things happen to them , i don't know what these mean rude people have a problem with we are all there to workout and better our health and they just want to cause trouble .
Oh man, that is a terrible thing! Hopefully your friend will come around to the craziness of that idea sooner rather than later. Boy oh boy. My best friend HAD a partner like that. Tried to isolate her from all her friends and family. It was really just a control mechanism to keep her under the thumb. I hope this isn't the case with your friend...but my advice...even though it probably hurts a little now, lay low, see what happens, because it sounds like your buddy is getting herself into a situation where she's going to need a friend sooner than she probably thinks.
Midnitesea
I agree with Midnitesea, some people forget that friends are for lifetime while men can come and go. Unless your friend is being nasty or has completely started to ignore you, I would hang low and wait for her. She may have very low self esteem so a man wanting to spend all his time (and hers) with her then she may see this as a compliment, not realising she is destroying friendships. As for your weight loss, plleeeaaasseee only lose weight for yourself! What will happen if you become 'skinny' and don't get the reaction you want? I hope you sort things out. Good luck
aristess