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gayleh 
I have moved out of my mother's home; and into my own. IT's starting all over again. I have started from ground 0. YES....true! I have to go buy new bedding; pots and pans; trash cans, and a snow shovel. I am stressed about the money; but thankful that I can pull my resources together and get it all done. It will be wonderful when I have accomplished some established lifestyle. And it's all mine. I am not desperate; nor dependent.
I started a new job. I will now have medical benefits, and a new 401k....ALL mine...NOT the ex's and nor anyone elses'. I am excited to have these all on my own!!!!!!
I am seeing a new guy now. He's wonderful. I see fun times with him and I see myself wanting to be a better and more open person with him....and with my friends in general. It's time to open up again......my divorce is done. It's all behind me.
It took a long time. It took a lot of work.....but I am free of the ex......I have learned to have a voice; to face fear; and to be my own advocate. It was painful; but it's a lesson I needed and wanted to learn!
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I am so proud of you! I knew you could do all of this...and I am so happy that we have become friends! Keep in touch!
CowgirlKathi
How wonderful. A new home to make your own. Your favorite colors, your own style. Your personality stamped all over your home.
A job with benefits. You are doing good.
trisha9054