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sissy0181 
9:44pm, November 24, 2008
WELL, I HAD MY HYSTO ON 7/10/09. THAT DATE I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE. I HAD A TOTAL LAP. HYSTO/ WITH OVERIES AND TUBES REMOVED WITH THE ROBOT- THE DA VINCI. AFTER THE DAY AFTER ME SURGERY I GOT UP AND FRESHEND UP. AND COULD SIT IN A CHAIR. I STILL GOT TIRED EASY. THE PAIN WAS SOOO DIFFERENT AND SOOO MUCH LESS. I HAVE BEEN DOING EVERYTHING THEY TOLD ME TO DO. AND I FEEL SO MUCH HAPPIER AFTER THE SURGERY. WHEN THE DOCTOR CAME IN THE ROOM THE MORNING AFTER MY SURGERY, HE SAID THAT MY LEFT OVERY WAS CEMENTED ON MY PELVIC BONE, AND WHEN HE SCARPED IT OFF, THE OVERIE TURNED TO LIQUID, AND HE SAID THAT I ONLY HAD ABOUT 1 MONTH BEFORE IT WOULD HAVE KILLED ME. THE ENDO. WENT ONTO MY LIVER, AND MY INTESTINES. THIS IS IN 2 MONTHS, ALL I CAN SAY IS WOW. I'M SOO GLAD I HAD THE HYSTO. I'M FINALLY FREE. THE DR. STARTED ME ON HORMONE THERPY ,AND BIRTH CONTROL SHOT TO KEEP THE ENDO FROM COMING BACK. I THINK HE WILL HAVE ME ON THE BIRTH CONTROL SHOT FOR A LONG TIME, AND I WILL GET MY HORAMONE PRESCIPT ON 07/28/09 ON MY POST OP APPT. MY HUSBAND AND I ARE GOING TO TRAVEL SOME MORE WHEN I GET BETTER. AND AFTER I HAVE BEEN HEALTHY FOR A COUPLE OF YEARS, THEN WE WILL ADOPT A CHILD, AND SO MORE DOGS, LOL. I THINK I WAS MEANT TO SAVE LIFES, ANIMAL AND HUMAN, I DON'T CARE ABOUT AGE, I JUST WANT TO ACRE OF EVERYONE. WELL I GUESS I NEED TO GET BACK TO MY DAY. I HOPE EVERYONE IS DOING GREAT, AND PLEASE WRITE ME, AND ALSO IF ANYONE HAS ANY INFO ON ADOPTION, PLEASE LET ME KNOW, I WOULD LOVE ANY HELP I COULD GET. HUGS AND KISSES.
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1 MONTH AND 7 DAYS TO GO!!!! SO, NOW HOW DO I DEAL WITH IT? I THINK I WILL GO TO TALK TO SOMEONE, I THOUGHT ABOUT MY CHURCH, I DON'T KNOW. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN HAVING TROUBLE, SINCE MY SURGERY. WE HAVE BEEN IN 2 DIFFERENT WORLDS, TRYING TO DEAL WITH ALL OF THIS. IS THERE ANYONE OUT THERE THAT HAD A HYSTO AT A YOUNG AGE, AND HAD NO KIDS????? WELL I HAVE TO FINISH MAKING DINNER. THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT HAS BENN SENDING ME HUGS AND MESSAGES, IT REALLY DOES MAKE ME FEEL BETTER. THERE HAS BEEN ALOT OF POEPLE THAT STOPPED WRITTING ON HERE, AND I WISH THEM WELL BUT IT DOES MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT US. BUT INSTEAD I WILL GET ON WITH IT!!!!! TALK TO EVERYONE ELSE SOON, AND GOD BE WITH YOU!!!!! P.S. IF IT TAKES ME A LITTLE TO ANSWER, I'M SORRY.
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Add your support WELL I WENT TO MY POST OP APPT. AND THE DOCTOR SAID THAT I HAD ENDO ON MY BLADDER, AND IN AND ALL OVER MY OVERIES, THAT I HAD ALOT OF CYSTS ON THE OVERIES. AND THE TREATMENTS NEVER WORKED, SO THE ONLY OTHER THING TO DO IS THE FULL HYSTO. BECAUSE AT THIS POINT THE ENDO. IS THREATING MY LIFE. SOOOO, MY SURGERY IS ON 7/10/09. AND I NEVER GOT TO HAVE ANY BABIES, I WAS JUST TOOOO SICK. AND I HAVE BEEN HAVING A PROBLEM WITH MY LIVER, SO THEY HAVE BEEN TESTING ME FOR THAT. I'M JUST SO MAD, EVERYONE I KNOW JUST KEEPS HAVING BABIES AND THEY CAN'T EVEN TAKE CARE OF THEM. AND THEY ARE NOT EVEN IN GOOD RELATIONSHIPS, IF THEY ARE IN ANY RELATIONSHIP. SO OF THEM JUST SLEEP AROUND AND DON'T KNOW WHO THE FATHER IS. MY HUSBAND WANTS TO ADOPT WHEN I GET BETTER. BUT I KNOW I NEED TO STOP BEING MAD ABOUT THIS BEFORE WE CAN MOVE FORWARD. I NEED A GROUP THAT I CAN GO TO WHERE I LIVE AND MAKE FRIENDS WITH WOMEN THAT DON'T HAVE KIDS AND HAD A HYSTO. AND THAT ARE MARRIED. BECAUSE NO ONE UNDERSTANDS WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH. NOT EVEN MY FAMILY. I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON MY HUSBAND, AND I'M A GOOD PERSON, SO WHY DID THIS HAPPEN TO ME? ALL I KNOW IS THAT NOT VERY MANY PEOPLE TALK ON HERE ANY MORE, AND I REALLY NEED SOMEONE THAT IS GOING THROUGH THIS TOO. SO I HOPE THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE................
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I'm not going through what you are experiencing but I'm happy to talk on here. I have a friend back in the UK who had all sorts of treat and ended up having a hysto in her late 30s (so a little older than you). I know its tough as she can't even bring herself to adopt she is in so much emotional pain. It sounds like you have a strong relationship with your husband and that you really are a good person....so fingers crossed when you feel strong enough and ready to adopt you will get speedy approval. Remember the most important thing is that you look after yourself, there is probably some grand master plan - we just aren't privileged enough to know what that plan is yet. Good luck and big hugs - I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. It must be horrible to abandon that hope of one day having your own baby. Take care. F x
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Carri Ann, sounds like you've been through quite a bit there. Glad the surgery went well. I hope that you are feeling better by now. I wish you all the best & hope that you can adopt a child. I don't know a whole lot about that whole process to be honest with you. I would just do research online. Any child would be very lucky to have a mom like you. Let me know how it goes. Love & Hugs, Sandi
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I am happy to hear everything is going good for you! when you can feel a difference after surgery its a good sign. My sister in law had stage 4 endo and had her total hyst. and she has not had any problems since then. Its nice when you have a Dr that knows what they are doing! Hugs..xx Staci
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