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Journal Entry for August 9, 2009 Mood
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Sunday, August 9, 2009 | An Educational story

I ran across this while doing some research on my condition and reasons for it.  I'm a firm believer that toxic situations contribute to Fibromyalgia and overall general mental and physical health.  I have highlighted in red the parts that pertain to me and my experience with a complete asshole.

 

Please understand, this isn't only the definition for only Elder Abuse and Neglect, it's abuse period!

 

Elder Abuse and Neglect 

By Jason Helm

 Abstract

 Elder abuse and neglect is a form of abuse that has more recently come to the public’s attention.  Abuse is defined as misuse, perversion; unjust or corrupt practice; reviling; insulting or unkind speech. Neglect is defined as a form of abuse that consists of a failure to fulfill care-taking and protective responsibilities, which leads to injury or distress. The term abuse typically includes both active abuse and neglect. The three broad categories of abuse include physical abuse, psychological abuse, and the violation of personal rights. State law requires that caregivers report any signs of abuse to the proper authorities.  Abuse is a power struggle between the victim and the abuser where the abuse exerts their authority over an individual through physical, mental, or emotional means.  Due to various reasons, the victim is often reluctant to report abuse that is happening to them.  This is why identification and reporting is important.  Elder abuse is not only important because we want to protect those we love, but also because we all will grow old and may depend on others for our safety and well being.

Introduction

          Typically when one hears the term domestic abuse the first thoughts are in regards to child abuse or spousal abuse.  Elder abuse and neglect is another hidden form of abuse that has more recently come to the public’s attention.[1]  The elderly are often stereotyped as a class of individuals who because of their frailty invites criminality.[2]  This type of stereotype expresses victim-blaming. As with any other type of crime, this characterization of the victim fails to explain the true causation of the action.

          Before one can discuss possible reasons for elder abuse, you must first look at what exactly is the definition of abuse and neglect and what are the differences between the two concepts.  Next we will discuss how to identify abuse and neglect and how professionals such as doctors and caregivers must report any signs of abuse.  Finally this paper will discuss some possible reasons for elder abuse and why elderly individuals are often reluctant to report such abuse when it is occurring.

Concept of abuse and neglect         

          According to the Oxford English Dictionary, abuse is defined as the misuse, perversion; unjust or corrupt practice; reviling; insulting or unkind speech. Neglect is defined as a form of abuse that consists of a failure to fulfill care-taking and protective responsibilities, which leads to injury or distress.[3]  Generally abuse may be considered acts of commission whereas neglect may be considered as acts of omission.[4]  However, the term abuse typically encompasses both abuse and neglect.  The term active abuse generally refers to what is defined as abuse whereas the term passive abuse refers to what is defined as neglect.  Often when one form of abuse is present, other forms typically accompany it.

The three broad categories of active abuse include physical abuse, psychological abuse, and the violation of personal rights.  Physical abuse may include beating or striking, infliction of pain, sexual molestation, unnecessary or unreasonable physical restraint and excessive use of psychotropic medication.[5]  Psychological abuse includes the infliction of emotional distress through verbal threats, humiliation, intimidation, and social isolation.[6]  Abuse involving the violation of individual rights may include unreasonable confinement, financial exploitation, infringement of personal rights, and economic abuse.[7]  Examples of passive abuse may include failure to give needed medication, failure to provide basic life functions to those incapable of performing it themselves; such as, bathing, feeding, etc.  Passive abuse may be as simple as not providing guidance and supervision to one who is in that individuals care and who needs specialized guidance and supervision.  Neglect is the most common type of abuse encountered by health care professionals.[8] 

Identification of abuse and caregiver responsibilities

Every state in the U.S. have laws that address abuse and most have mandatory reporting laws requiring caregivers and health professional to report any signs of potential abuse.  These laws are very similar to laws that require the mandatory reporting of child abuse. In most states, reporting elder abuse legally supersedes a physician’s commitment to patient confidentiality.[9] An example of these types of laws in South Dakota can be found at SDCL 22-46. 

SDCL 22-46-1 defines abuse as “physical harm, bodily injury, or attempt to cause physical harm or injury, or the infliction of fear of imminent physical harm or bodily injury on a disabled adult.”  It further defines neglect as “harm to a disabled adult’s health or welfare, without reasonable medical justification, caused by the conduct of a person responsible for the adult’s health or welfare, within the means available for the disabled adult, including the failure to provide adequate food, clothing, shelter or medical care.  If a disabled adult is under treatment solely by spiritual means, the court may, upon good cause shown, order that medical treatment be provided for that disabled adult.”  SDCL 22-46-1 further defines a disabled adult “as a person 18 years or older who suffers from a condition of mental retardation, infirmities of aging as manifested by organic brain damage, advanced age or other physical dysfunctioning to the extent that the person is unable to protect himself or provide for his own care.”  SDCL 22-46-2 states that any person who abuses or neglects a disabled adult is guilty of a class 6 felony.  SDCL 22-46-6 allows for immunity from liability for reporting abuse or neglect of disabled adults.  This is to help insure that caregivers report signs of abuse and neglect without fear that they themselves would be blamed for their observations and concerns.

Most states consider mandatory reporters to be the following:  Physicians, physician assistants, medical interns, dentists, nurses, family counselors, social workers, policemen, firefighters, EMTs, psychologists, coroners, physical therapists, occupational therapists, osteopaths, podiatrists, executive directors of licensed home health agencies, managers of assisted living.  These individuals must report to their state agencies.  Failure to do so may result in fines.

In order for doctors or other health care officials to report potential abuse, they must first be able to identify it.  Signs of physical abuse may include:  bruises, scratches, grip marks, rope burns, unexplained bleeding, unexplained fractures, cigarette burns, and torn or bloody underwear.[10]  Signs of psychological abuse may include:  depression, development of habits, lack of interest in a social context, being unreasonably fearful or suspicious, and being unresponsive.[11]  Violation of personal rights abuse may include:  large bank withdrawals, unusual ATM activity, frequent account changing, and life circumstances that don’t match the size of their estate.[12]  Signs of neglect may include:  poor hygiene, consistent hunger, inappropriate dress, fatigue, and unattended physical problems or medical needs.[13]

Physicians are a crucial link in discovering and identifying potential elder abuse.  During examinations they are required to look for potential abuse and if any thing unusual is discovered, they are required to report their findings to the authorities.  Visual examinations are only the first step in diagnosing abuse; communication with the potential victim is also crucial.  The victims are often reluctant to freely give information so physicians must ask a series of questions in order to unearth possible answers.  Some possible questions doctors may ask are:[14]

1.            Physical abuse questions

a.     Are you afraid of anyone at home?

b.     Have you been kicked or shoved?

c.      Have you ever been tied down or locked in a room?

d.     Have you ever been force-fed?

e.     Has anyone touched you in a sexual way without permission? 

2.            Psychological abuse questions

a.     Do you ever feel alone?

b.     Have you been threatened with punishment or institutionalization?

c.      Have you received the silent treatment?

d.     Do you get routine news and information?e.     What happens when you and your caregivers disagree?

3.            Financial/Personal rights abuse questions

a.     Is money being stolen from you or used inappropriately?

b.     Are you given adequate information about your finances?

c.      Have you been forced to sign a power of attorney or any other document against your wishes?

d.     Does you caregiver spend your money on themselves?

4.            Neglect questionsa.     Do you lack items that you need such as false teeth, eyeglasses, medication, etc.?

b.     Have you been left alone for long periods of time?

c.      Is your home safe?

d.     Does anyone make you wait a long time or refuse to help when you need assistance?

5.            Follow up questions if abuse is identified

a.     How long has this been occurring?

b.     How many times has it happened?

c.      Why do you think it happens?

d.     When do you think it will happen again?

e.     Is the abuser present?  Do you know their name?

f.       Do you feel it is safe to return home?

g.     What would you like to see happen from this? Causation and Reporting          Several theories exist on why elder abuse occurs.  The first theory is called psychopathological.[15]  Under this theory the abusers have personality problems and disorders that cause them to be abusive.  Basically this theory states that abuse may be cause by mental illness.  A second theory of abuse is the situational model theory.[16]  Under this theory as the stress associated with certain situational and structural factors increase for the abuser, the likelihood increase of abuse acts directed at a vulnerable individual who is seen as being associated with the stress.  The abuser basically blames the elderly individual for causing stress and problems in their life and takes out their anger and frustration on the elderly individual.  Greed is a third theory on why abuse occurs.[17]  The victim may have money or possessions that the caregiver thinks they are entitled to.  This would be more common when children are taking care of their elderly parents.  Finally, the most common theory on abuse is that it is a reflection of anger and especially power.  The abuser has dominion and control over the abused individual and is constantly trying to maintain and exert that sense of control.One of the most common problems in an abuse situation is that the victim does not report what is happening to them.  This is why it is important for doctors and caregivers to be educated in detecting signs of abuse and to report any signs abuse that they encounter.  There are several reasons why a victim may not report abuse.  A common reaction to abuse is denial.[18]  It is hard to admit that you are being abused, especially if it is a relative who is doing it.  An individual may be frightened of the abuser and an elderly person may be afraid of the future as well.  If the abuse is confronted (or arrested) then the elderly individual is worried about who else is going to look after them.  The elderly victim may also fear public exposure because they feel shame at having raised a child who would hurt them in any way.[19]  There may also be a family code of solidarity that they believe should not be broken.  The victim also may fear losing affection or feel that they deserve the abuse and thus accept it.  Finally, the abused individual may not report abuse simply because they are not aware that there is any abuse occurring.  This may occur when there is an impairment and the elderly individual does not realize what is happening.  This may also occur if the child or caregiver has access to the finances or property of the elderly individual who does not pay attention to those details any more. Conclusion          Elder abuse is a potential problem that we all must be aware of, not only because we want to protect our loved ones and friends from harm, but also because we too will become old and possibly face the same fate.  The term abuse often includes both abuse and neglect.  Generally abuse may be considered acts of commission whereas neglect may be considered as acts of omission.  Identification and reporting of potential abuse by doctors and caregivers is not only crucial for helping the victim but also is required by law.  Abuse can be simply summed up as a struggle for power and unfortunately gain their power through physical, psychological, or emotional control.  
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  1. headjob

    thanks alot.That does set alot of things straight.I had decided to cut off an 8yr friendship with a male friend of mine whom started to get verbally abusive and mean & impatient with me and my FM & CFS..And,I'v actually felt a bit better since..So, I try to get rid of all the toxic friends(even family members) and "Emotional Vampires" from my life now.Love & Peace,Missy


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