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Alex31 
Well my date with my husband went reasonably well. We had dinner at a nice restaurant and then went back here for desert. We ran out of time to see a movie. We talked about all sorts of stuff and he was nice to me. I brought up the relationship only a couple of times and backed off when he didn't wanna talk about it. I did suggest that we go away together for the Easter long weekend (I know that was pushy). He said "I'll think about it". I don't think I was too pushy overall though. I even asked him at the end if I was and he said I wasn't and that I was fine. I drove him back to his aprtment after and I am ok. I am not breaking down or anything. We will have another date in two weeks.
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:) I'm glad that everything went well on your date. It sounds like you're definitely handling things much better with your husband. I hope everything works out for the best.
FrmDeb2U
happy you had a good time
happy you are not breaking down
not happy because it all makes me scared for you Alex..... i'll hope for you because i'm your friend, but i still worry, and that is for the same reason
*hugs*
Lane80
I'm glad things went well! Now only if you could not ask those questions at all. That's the hardest part, but please believe me when I say that's going to be what ultimatley pushes him away.
Go do Alex stuff. Show him you don't need him or won't die if he's not there! And next time he calls, be busy. Don't say you're busy, but be active get out, socialize!
I realize it's a very hard and trying time right now, but doing things you enjoy will make you feel better, boost your confidence and show your H just what he's missing out on. The beautiful, sensitive, loving woman that he fell in love with.
Mostly though, I hope you do all those things for yourself and not for H. You need to put yourself first babe, because no one else is going to!
Hopefully you'll do these things just for you though.
Shocky
hope it all works out for you two
GeocacherNY
I wish you well in what ever that may be , just watch out for your heart . do not feed on false hopes and it is good to see you are not breaking down , that is a BIG improvement, I know how much he means to you. so , i wish you the best.
Dun4now
Ditto to what Steve said! You are doing better. Now don't call or email him for the next two weeks, give him a chance to miss seeing you. It's hard I know, but you can do it! Let him chase you, or not.
sc2kids4me
shocky was spot on with her advice. you cannot sit idly by waiting on something. at the same time, there could be something else out there for you.
JTGPP
I am glad it went well for you Alex. I want so much for you to be happy. I just hope that you are not going to get your heart broken. What is he waiting to see??? Mine keep telling me he needed time to figure things out, when I finally asked him if his feelings for me had changed he said no, so I said what was he waiting for then. Be strong for you and what you want.
phoenix7
That Shocky is one smart woman! I agree with her 100%...see what happens when you get here late, all the good advice is alreay taken!
aguyandadog