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  • About Me

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    Denimari

    Female, 53, Single
    Roebling, NJ, USA
    Member since September 13, 2007

    • About Me

      Single mom in N.J., that has survived three losses of close family members in the year of 2007. My mother died, Jan. 07, my oldest son who was the Chief of a local Fire Department, died suddenly & tragically on Aug. 6, 2007. Shaun...my angel now for one year. As if the pain of loosing my mother & son wasn't enough for me to handle, on Sept. 6, 2007, 4 weeks to the day my only sister died. It's been a long hard year, and I'm still grieving all of my losses.

      Single mom in N.J., that has survived three losses of close family members in the year of 2007. My mother died, Jan. 07, my oldest son who was the Chief of a local Fire Department, died suddenly & tragically on Aug. 6, 2007. Shaun...my angel now for one year. As if the pain of loosing my mother & son wasn't enough for me to handle, on Sept. 6, 2007, 4 weeks to the day my only sister died. It's been a long hard year, and I'm still grieving all of my losses.

    • Interests

      People who are down to earth, caring & compassionate. Writing, poetry & short stores. Minimum exposure with two poems published. Music, my other 2 children, Dana & Josh. Love people with a good sense of humor, although mine has escaped me for now.

      People who are down to earth, caring & compassionate. Writing, poetry & short stores. Minimum exposure

  • Journal

    • In Memory

      Mood November 7, 2009 1:01am

      I have to admit I've had a few really good days.  Another breakthrough - so to speak, my therapist suggested I get in touch with my daughter …

    • Small Breakthrough

      Mood November 5, 2009 7:27pm

      Hello ladies,

       

      Small breakthrough with therapy this morning - with facing some hard truths, yet having the therapist reassure me - he thinks if I …

    • Tired & Thankful

      Mood November 2, 2009 11:35pm

      Everyone has touched my heart with your latest journal comments - I see; the love & feel it and thank you for helping me through this.

       

      I …

    • Therapy Homework Assignment

      Mood November 2, 2009 2:33am

      My therapist gave me homework that has to be handed to him Thurs. morning.  He knows I love to write - so he suggested I write a poem - that …

    • Living In Hell

      Mood November 1, 2009 6:48pm

      God has put me in "Hell", again - living hell that seems to abnormal to me.  If I thought life was bad with my first husband, my 2nd …

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    • Kiss

      From JudyWI Today

      Aw, Sweet Deni, that is soo sweet of you! I am taking it pretty easy, as I have been sick the last couple of weeks, first the flu, then sciatica and knee out of place, THEN a really bad cold. Almost went to Urgent care yesterday--so much coughing yucky stuff, but I hate doctors and hospitals. I got dressed today, so that is something, right?? Tight hugs to you, Hon! Love, Judy

    • Hug

      From aprilwashere256 Today

      thank you

    • Flower

      From Bess2 Yesterday

      thanks Deni, u hv made my Day! will repsond later & takin off with a friend. blessings, hugs, & lol. bess

    • Flower

      From TIEASEJUSTINSMOM Yesterday

      just want you to knw you are loved hugs!!!!!!!Jody

    • Thumbs Up

      From tomtom Yesterday

      Keep up the good work. I love the positive entry sad as it was!

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  • Goals

    Progress

    20 %

    Goal End Date is Nov 26, 09 18 more days.
  • Support Groups

    • Close Bereavement
      Type: Loss of a Child

      Loss of mom, Jan. 2007, loss of oldest son Shaun, age 29, Aug 6, 2007, loss of only sister four weeks after loosing son on Sept. 6, 2007.

      Treatments

      Crying Somewhat Helpful
      I still tear up daily, so many triggers - have been having crying jags after the 2 year mark.
      Grief Counseling Too Soon to Tell
      Just started intensive grief therapy after putting it off for much too long - this is a must in order to sustain and find a new way of life.
      Keeping Busy Not Working
      No distractions really help - I'm away from the pain for a moment - but it always manages to catch up with me at some point in the day.
      Music Somewhat Helpful
      Passionate about music & yes it does take my mind to a better place.
      Pets Working / Worked
      Boots - my youngest sons cat - a really crazy cat who constantly gets into mischief -if he weren't so cute with those big green eyes - I'd have packed his suitcase by now.
      Poetry Somewhat Helpful
      I've picked back up with writing.
      Prayer Somewhat Helpful
      I have prayed everyday since Shaun died - & I will continue to do so - I believe the power of prayer can create miracles
      Support from Friends & Family Not Working
      Support Groups Working / Worked
      Could not have gotten this far in two years time without For Moms only - the love & comfort and shared common bond, assures me that I'm not the only one that feels this way.
      Talking Not Working
      Time Not Working
      2 years - therapist says 2 years for a mother to feel healed over loosing a child.
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