Journal Entry for February 20, 2008
February 20, 2008 1:16pm
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Renaissance Dragoness
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About Me
Renaissance Dragoness
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About Me
I'm an Administrative Proffesional in the HVAC business by day, but by night I'm a Rock Band Manager/Singer/Songwriter/Musician/Poet/Artist who loves/studies, Soul Psychology, Philosophy, Psychology and Mythology, just for starters... :)
I'm an Administrative Proffesional in the HVAC business by day, but by night I'm a Rock Band Manager/Singer/Songwriter/Musician/Poet/Artist who loves/studies, Soul Psychology, Philosophy, Psychology and Mythology, just for starters... :)
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Interests
I have too many interests to list. I love learning in general. The top of the list is Philosophy, Music & Art.
I have too many interests to list. I love learning in general. The top of the list is Philosophy, Music
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Journal
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Journal Entry for February 20, 2008
February 20, 2008 1:14pm
Well, I stopped using this site for a while since things were going so great for me. But now that I found out that my Husbands been cheating on me, …
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Journal Entry for March 6, 2007
March 6, 2007 6:00pm
Go me! Go me! (Doing the cabbage patch) Got a raise and a promotion! LOL
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Journal Entry for March 6, 2007
March 6, 2007 5:57pm
I've been miserable at work because of my verbally abusive boss so I went to a job interview for a dentists office because I want to go back into the …
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Journal Entry for February 13, 2007
February 13, 2007 8:03pm
I've figured something out! The trick-at least lately- seems to be remaining emotionless when expressing my disapproval of his negative behavior. …
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Prayer
i pray that u feel better and u get ur life bac on track soon
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Thanks for checking on me a while back... I haven't been on here in a long time, but I'm going to try it again... good for getting things OUT! Anyways... I hope you're doing well! Take care of you!
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OMG that is awful you must be devastated. I realize a hug isn't going kick him in the groin like he deserves but hopefully you will smile for a bit!!
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Thanks for your kind words, I realy appreciate the rspect and understanding that I get from everyone here.
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I understand completely! I left a nasty message on the OW's voicemail. She called my H and told him she didn't need the pain of dealing with that. Poor her! I'm sorry her screwing my husband and me finding out has left her in such a state of emotional turmoil! I know where whe lives, but figured she wasn't worth it. My H, on the other hand, is no longer living here! God Bless.
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Close ADHD / ADD
I've tried everything I've heard of. Hopefully there's another treatment out there that can help?
Treatments
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Adderall Working / Worked
- Definate improvement but there's no doubt more to be done.
- Behavior Management Working / Worked
- Didn't work but there's a variation of it I just learned of that I'm starting.
- Avoid Certain Foods / Chemicals Working / Worked
- Instead of soda, juice. Instead of fries, mashed potatoes. No deli meats, no deli cheese, no hot dogs. Good practice for anybody but noticeable difference in my ADHD son.
- Prayer Working / Worked
- I've been praying for a miracle...
- Physical Exercise Somewhat Helpful
- Sometimes simply running up & down stairs or jumping rope for a few minutes is all he needs to calme down. If done before school, there's a noticeable difference. The challenge is his mood. Sometimes he wants to do it, sometimes he won't.
- Ritalin Not Working
- It seemed to work for a short time, but the side effects didn't justify the slim results
Close Stress Management
I'm happily married with an 8 yr old son with ADHD. Parenting is stressful enough but add to that, a stressful job, mourning from my brother's recent passing, and a lack of time and BAM! Stress Management issues. Luckily I have an awesome Marriage and strong relationship with God though. Otherwise, I'd probably be a wreck. :)
Treatments
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Having a shoulder to cry on is helpful even if "the shoulder" doesn't have advice to give.
- Meditation Working / Worked
- It works when I make the time. I just don't always make time. :(
- Writing Working / Worked
- This helps if I have the energy. If I'm too fatigued, it's fruitless.
- Prayer Working / Worked
- I find the potency of prayer is doubled if done in writing and at night.
- Aromatherapy Somewhat Helpful
- I find it works if it's used with music or meditation. By itself, it has little effect.
Open Healthy Sex
The bottom line is I wish my drive matched my darling husband's. (I need to learn how to tone it down.)
Open Infidelity
I suspected my Husband has been cheating on me since Oct2007. I gathered proof using my training as a detective and cornered him into admitting it. Very long story short, we're working on our marrage though he keeps in contact with her by email still! The truth came out 1/18/08 and I've been struggling with tempations of revenge. We all worked together and were friends to boot! My beleifs stop me from hurting her... The inner war continues...
Treatments
- Writing Working / Worked
- I wrote down all the reasons why Im better than her for my husband. I also wrote down all the positive things to remind myself of when I feel Im about to loose it.
- Prayer Somewhat Helpful
- I have to pray immediately as my mind starts going to a dark place. Otherwise Im too emotional and torn to get anything out of it.
