The Sun is shining.....
October 18, 2009 10:31am
Not much has changed here.except we are enjoying likely one of the most beautiful fall days....I got all the raking done in the front yard....Now …
4getmenot
10:32pm, October 18, 2009
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About Me
4getmenot
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About Me
I am a woman with many dreams..but have set most of them on the back burner..til my husband heals.. My husband was diagnosed with an Incurable disease..called Hidradenitis suppurativia.. www.hs-usa.org I was diagnosed with Manic depression..on 1994..
I am a woman with many dreams..but have set most of them on the back burner..til my husband heals.. My husband was diagnosed with an Incurable disease..called Hidradenitis suppurativia.. www.hs-usa.org I was diagnosed with Manic depression..on 1994..
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I love to read....write..watch reality TV shows..( I know I am pathetic) oh well.I love to bake..travel...but these days not to far..I do not like highway driving in winter months...weather is way to unpredictable.. Lately I am very interested in polictics...
I love to read....write..watch reality TV shows..( I know I am pathetic) oh well.I love to bake..travel...but
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Update!!
September 10, 2009 7:55am
Wow......oh wow...It has been 2 months since I have been to the group to enter a new update..
How the heck are all of you..I have so missd you …
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Happiness is what to you??
May 18, 2009 11:35am
4 days have passed by and what a difference 4 days has made around here..I earned from...this incident on the9th when the artery …
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One Day at a Time
May 14, 2009 1:27pm
Sometimes..one needs to take action.........In a Positive way..I talked to his doc..and he explained that.....Bob is going through a very rough …
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Sorry, I just haven't been on here in a long time. I do miss you and my other friends, but I just don't have as much time as I used to.
Forgive me for being insensivive. I don't mean to.
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Subject: Acts 2:38
A woman had just returned to her home from an evening
of church services, when she was startled by an intruder.
She caught the man in the act of robbing her home of its
valuables and yelled: 'Stop! Acts 2:38!'
(Repent and be baptized, in the name of Jesus Christ, so
that your sins may be forgiven.)
The burglar stopped in his tracks. The woman calmly
called the police and explained what she had done.
As the officer cuffed the man to take him in, he asked
the burglar: 'Why did you just stand there? All the old
lady did was yell a scripture to you.'
'Scripture?' replied the burglar. 'She said she had an
ax and two 38s!'
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My grand kids are 5 and 6. They live with me now. They sure make life busy. Hope you have a great week. oh and we used to get a lot of kids on Halloween but it has dwindled over the years,
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All is well here in Sunny Spain. Sorry to hear that you are having a rough time just now. Loving thoughts sent your way hopefully will help. Haven't been on for a while as I have been so busy with other things - haven't had time to dwell on anything really. Big Hugs. Rab.
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One day a woman's husband died, and on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of their bedroom, the wife was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't "anymore". No more hugs, no more special moments to celebrate together, no more phone calls just to chat, no more "just one minute." Sometimes, what we care about the most gets all used up and goes away, never to return before we can say good-bye, say"I love you."
So while we have it, it's best we love it, care for it, fix it when it's broken and heal it when it's sick. This is true for marriage.....And old cars... And children with bad habits and report cards, and dogs with bad hips, and aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.
Some things we keep -- like a best friend who moved away or a sister-in-law after divorce. There are just some things that make us happy, no matter what.
Life is important, like people we know who are special.. And so, we keep them close!
I received this from someone who thought I was a 'keeper'! Then I sent it to the people I think of in the same way.... Now it's your turn to send this to all those people who are "keepers" in your life, including the person who sent it, if you feel that way. Suppose one morning you never wake up, do all your friends know you love them?
I was thinking...I could die today, tomorrow or next week, and I wondered if I had any wounds needing to be healed, friendships that needed rekindling or three words needing to be said.
Let every one of your friends know you love them. Even if you think they don't love you back, you would be amazed at what those three little words and a smile J can do. And just in case I'm gone tomorrow.
I LOVE YA!!!
Live today because tomorrow is not promised..
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Support Groups
Close Hidradenitis Suppurativa
I am a wife of a HS sufferer..My husband Bob has had this disease for 11yrs..It has been especally tough in the past 2yrs..He is in the process of retiring from work early..
Treatments
- Clindamycin Working / Worked
- Just works
- Keflex Not Working
- allergic reaction.rashes
- Enbrel Not Working
- For my husband the outbreaks became worse.
- Writing Working / Worked
- When I am feeling down, not knowing what to say to Bob( my husband any more) then I writie in my Journal
Close Healthy Relationships
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- Spent 3 yrs in therapy
- Talking Working / Worked
- Communication is the key
- Writing Working / Worked
- I journal daily and have for 25yrs
- Writing Working / Worked
- It is a sHealthy as it will get
Open Female Sexual Issues
My husband was diagnosed with an incurable disease that cause hi to break out with boils..under his arms, in his groin area and on his buttocks..so I have lost all desire to have sex...as far as the intercourse parts goes..and oral sex is defiently out of the question...
Treatments
- Relaxation Working / Worked
- Removing myself..away from the situation..escaping to a diferent part of the house, write in my Journal, listen to music..and take care of myself..
- Love Working / Worked
- My husband never asked for his disease , it is what it is..and we deal with it on a daily basis, I continue to love him, care for him ful time..
Open Bipolar Disorder
I was diagnosed in 1994.after having a mental breakdown
Treatments
- Haldol Not Working
- Way too powerful of a drug..I felt completely comatosed
- Lithium Somewhat Helpful
- It was helpful for first 4th yr.and then it darn near killed me in 1999..My Liver and kidney's started shutting down
- Tegretol Working / Worked
- I have been on epival for 8yrs.and it has kept me fairly level.I do slip into Manic highs on occassion but not nearly as intense as they once were..
- Writing Working / Worked
- Helps me to freely express myself without Judgement from others.
Open Infidelity
Treatments
- Couples Counseling Working / Worked
- Silent
- Forgiveness Working / Worked
- Numb
Open Depression
I just want to join so that I can learn all I can..to help my DS freinds and my sister who does not belong to DS..she suffers with Depression
Treatments
- Positive Thinking Working / Worked
- I believe we all have to turn our thinking aroound
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- Hugs /open ears.no judgements
- Writing Working / Worked
- Write the good the bad and the ugly
Open Panic Attacks
Approximently 15yrs ago..while I was driving home from the grocery store..I sudenly felt so dizzy.and My heart was racing and the next thing I recall was I was half on the boulevard ..car still running..I =shut the car off..grabbed the groceries..Locked it up and walked home..32 blocks..
Open Families & Friends Affected By Suicide
My brotherinlaw committed suicide in 2000..hung himself in his basement..
Treatments
Open Healthy Eating
I am 48yrs old , and have been fighting menopause..hot/cold/ and yes weight gain..
Open Sex / Pornography Addiction
I love to see other mens..cocks..gets me excited..But My husband does know.be up front from day one..
Open Caregivers
My husband suffers with a Incurable disease..and he and I as a couple..( married for 31yrs)..In past 3yrs..He cannot sit too long..stand too long..becasue his body is covered with painful lesions..In a short time after he goes for major surgery I have to be not only his understanding wife but also.his full time caregiver..
Open The Financial Crisis
Even though this has happened in the USA and I am from Canada..I still listen..and read the news of the USA.. I think in ways this a good lesson learned..everyone should learn to budget, live within your means..cut all those credit cards up..buy as you can afford..This is a true wake up call for many!!! and it does affect Canada..we could very likely one day be facing the same thing..
Open Family & Friends of Bipolar
I am the one with Bi-polar..and I also have been married for 31yrs..You do have to work together through the whole Bp thing..I have been episode free for 7yrs due to excellent medication ( that ( take faithfully)..see Phyc every 3 months and see therapisst every 3 months also..and keep busy..
