Second Anniversary....
August 8, 2009 10:28pm
On August 13, I will celebrate the return of my husband to our permanent home, God's home. I am choosing to celebrate this year because I …
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VivianM
11:08pm, May 23, 2009
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About Me
VivianM
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About Me
I was blessed with a loving husband and best friend for 26 years, those were the happiest years of my life. Rolando and I were inseparable during our marriage and now I must face the world without him. However, I continue to be blessed because I feel he is always with me in spirit and that helps me carry on. Love is such a wonderful gift and it is eternal. My dear DS friends, know that for those of you also experiencing a loss, my prayers are always with you...We are not alone.
I was blessed with a loving husband and best friend for 26 years, those were the happiest years of my life. Rolando and I were inseparable during our marriage and now I must face the world without him. However, I continue to be blessed because I feel he is always with me in spirit and that helps me carry on. Love is such a wonderful gift and it is eternal. My dear DS friends, know that for those of you also experiencing a loss, my prayers are always with you...We are not alone.
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Comforting book
May 23, 2009 11:07pm
I recently came across this e-book and found it very comforting, so I wanted to share the link with all my friends at ds.
You can read it …
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Story behind the song....
March 7, 2009 10:49pm
My friends:
I realized that I had not sent you enough information for you to be able to access the song, here it is and please read below for the …
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I’m With You
Oh, I do agree with you. I almost dread the holidays which is terrible, and now that my duaghter's baby is here, she is all for a holiday dinner. But, I would just love to relax. Christmas is worse. Oh, to just have a relaxing day and think about what is important. Certainly not the presents and glitter. I think I would like to appear at your house, and we could be stress free. I know your present diet is healthy, and I wish you well. My daughter had her baby at Loma Linda University Hospital. It's a Seventh Day Adventist university, so that's all you get in the cafeteria. They say most of the people there live well into their 90's. I understand you just have to learn to balance out your nutrients. Anyway, I give you credit and the best of luck with it. Happy Stress-Free Thanksgiving, my sweet friend. Oh, by the way, my friend in Minnesota lives with her daughter who is vegetarian. They are having something that looks like a turkey but isn't. Lots of hugs and prayers, Enid XXX
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Flower
Hello, my sweet friend. I hope things are going well with you. Are you going out of town for the holiday? I do hope you will have a nice Thanksgiving. Love and hugs, Enid XXX
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Rainbow
Thank you Vivian for your comment to my journal. As I said, I never met her either, but this strange journey we're on makes us all kindred spirits. I hope you are well and having a good day, my friend. Love, hugs, and prayers.....Enid
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Ray of Sunshine
You are such a comfort, Vivian. Love and Hugs!! Enid
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Flower
Thank you, Vivian, for all the support you have given me. It's so hard to tell people, who don't understand, how I feel. They think I'm being obsessive about it. I think I feel this way because of no goodbyes, no final words - like 46 years together was over just like that. Thank you again for being my friend. I know you are right in my heart. I sense that you have found some peace within yourself on this terrible journey, and I am happy and encouraged for you. Love, hugs, and prayers always, Enid
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Close Bereavement
Type: Loss of a Partner/SpouseMy husband of 26 years passed away unexpectedly on August 13 of this year. We did not have any children and now I am alone in our home and I feel completely lost and desolate. The pain is almost unbeareable sometimes. I do not have any family where I live, but my mother is staying with me for now. She is elderly however and I worry about overwhelming her with my grief.
Treatments
- Keeping Busy Too Soon to Tell
- I started to work again, but I am working from home and my husband was always by my side, so even work is painful right now.
- Prayer Somewhat Helpful
- I do pray everyday. It helps.
- Remembering Working / Worked
- Support from Friends & Family Working / Worked
- My mother's support is invaluable. But I worry that I may overwhelm her.
- Talking Working / Worked
- I talk to a friend who lives in another state, and that is helpful. This is the only friend that calls me all the time to see how I am doing.
Close Widows & Widowers
My Husband died on August 13, 2007 unexpectedly. He and I had known each other for 26 years and had been married for 20. He was my very best friend in the world. A wonderful, loving and caring person who filled my life with blessings and joy. I find it unbeareable being without him now. The pain and the longing are so deep, I never realized there could be so much pain.
