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Julie Cohen is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist MFT and a Child Mental Health Specialist with a private practice in Los Angeles. Her areas of focus include: depression, anxiety, panic, post-traumatic stress, bipolar…
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I think my therapist breached confidentiality, what should I do?
Posted in Depression by Julie Cohen on Jan 26, 2010
One of the first things I learned in graduate school was the limits of confidentiality in therapy. What this basically means is what information am I required by law to keep between myself and my client and what must I not keep confidential.

The general rule of thumb is that everything that a client tells you in session must remain private unless one of these safety issues comes into play:

  • The client poses a danger to themselves (suicidal thoughts or actions)

  • The client poses a danger to someone else (threats of violence to another)

  • The client is gravely disabled and unable to care for themselves

  • The client reveals information about a child under the age of 18 who has or is being abused

  • The client reveals information about an elderly or disabled person who is being abused

  • The therapist is presented with a subpoena from the court to testify

Those are the only situations where client confidentiality can be legally breached without consent from the client. For every other situation a client must sign a release of information form for a therapist to speak to others about a client. Typically, these releases are used for a therapist to gather more information that might help the therapist. This includes, speaking to doctors, teachers and other family members.

Sometimes there are unusual requests to release information and this is where things can get a little murky. There are some therapeutic approaches that encourage bringing together like-minded clients. For instance, one client had came to therapy to process a divorce and worked through most of those issues. A second client has come to therapy for the same reason but is just starting to work on the issues. The therapist might encourage the two clients to meet and support each other. I have heard of this type of client pairing happening. The therapist intentions are good but it can be fraught with problems including potential breaches of confidentiality.

If you feel that you therapist has breached your confidentiality there are several things that you can do. First, you can talk to your therapist about your concerns and try to work it out with them. If you don’t feel satisfied with the results or the breach was so egregious that you never want to have contact again you can call your local licensing board and file and formal complaint. Typically these boards are listed by the type of license such as; psychologist, marriage and family therapist, licensed clinical social worker and licensed professional counselor.

Remember that a breach of confidentiality in therapy greatly affects the trust that you have with your therapist. If you can’t work it out then continuing in therapy with a therapist you don’t trust can be detrimental.

Julie

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wow! they handle all that drama and have to think of solutions.. what really amuses me is the false rumors and lies other professions tell... if you didn't connect then find a different therapist... if you think life will be fair.. maybe just some more life experiences...
By dewounded  Jan 31, 2010
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I'd look for another therapist, maybe one that works at a guidence center facility that has rules they should fallow or be fired. I've bee through at least 3 therapists, 2 charged $50 an hour, one charged $120 an hour[I saw him for less than half an hour]. But only you can decide which therapist is trustworthy or not. If you hear other clients talk about things their therpist said about other clients that's when to act on your hunch an report the therapist. I've never met any of my therapist's other clients because he keeps everything confidential. If I know any other clients of his, it would be because they told me themselves.

StephP
By StephP  Jan 30, 2010
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i ve been going through therapist for years. i havent found one that i feel i can trust. and i continue to go to some that i have problems with just so i can have one to go to. one therapist was falling asleep. one is so hard of hearing i have to shout and the whole place hears me. i feel caught in this circle where everyone now knows what is going on with me and im being judged mercilessly. one told me my marriage was going to fail if i didnt do something about getting a job and get off disability. another reminded me that i was only paying half the bill that it was the taxpayers that were actually paying the rest. i cant believe this is hapenning to me. im making stupid and careless decisions. or none at all.i feel manipulated about my privacy rights. telling me that i have to sign these papers or i wont be seen. like im trying to hide something or im doing something wrong. or im just totally full of crap.
By shegut  Jan 28, 2010
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What about a on campus University Therapist who tells everything to your roommate?
By Friend19  Jan 28, 2010
5
I must add to the above that *if your workplace* has sent you for an evaluation, that therapist is *only* acting in your emplyer's HR and legal team's interest, not yours, and know MANY people that have had thier HIV+ status exposed to the work environment, due to side effects of medication causing the investigative process to find out exactly why the employee is missing time, and consequesntly, the employee loses their jobs. You are better off already having a therapist lined up via a referral from your Infectious Disease Dr. and having him write a leter for you, supporting your need to take FMLA time off, otherwise, the employer can and will tie us your opposition in litigation eternally. This is unfortunate, because it further perpetuates the HIV+ stigma, causing even more depression and anxiety. Moral of this: DO NOT let your employer send you to a therapist or social worker under this circumstance if you want to keep your job.
Peace
By namnibor  Jan 28, 2010
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I certainly appreciate and share your concern, without permission you would hope that this sought of thing would not happen, I guess though that there is a silver lining, that being that you are better known, and therefore more likely to be ACCEPTED for your behaviour via your personal previously untold/unknown life story. Sometimes this is the best way for such facts about you to be divulged, although like you, I am not 100% in support of it.
By BeatinBP  Jan 27, 2010
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ooo like when i told my counselor that i was sexually abused and no on knows, or when she found out about my cutting....and my suicidal thoughts....i thought she just wanted me to get in trouble..or when i called the hotline 2weeks ago and told her wat i did she called the police
By Itzjustme  Jan 26, 2010
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To continue to work with a therapist who has breached the confidentiality agreement as set out, prior to treatment commencing... would be ridiculous, unprofessional and seriously detrimental to a clients progress and to the whole concept of therapy, as I understand it to be.. Primarily, it has to be a relationship built on trust to be of any value to the client. Any therapist who breaches that trust should cease to practise until their misapprehension of their role and professional misconduct is properly addressed and resolved.. The client should move on swiftly, in such a situation. I only hope that their faith in the system hasn't been damaged to the extent that they forgo therapy altogether.. Fortunately, there are plenty of excellent and well trained therapists/counsellors around who understand the reasons for, and adhere strictly to, the codes of conduct as set out by their profession.
By Halli  Jan 26, 2010
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You cant do a damn thing unless you have proof. You see a therapist so your mental status is immediately in question.
By doghouse23  Jan 26, 2010
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