I was told many years ago that my problem was just as you say==Loving Too Much== How was it possible to love TOO much? Well I have spent 40 years in a marriage where I did just that and now I am ready to do whatever it takes to finally find myself and get on with what makes ME happy !! I am truly a dreaming grandma because My dreams are to create a life that puts ME first and not feel guility about it!! So come on you guys help me do just that!!