I received the call at 9 am on Sept 18, 2009. My sister was found dead in her home. We didn't know how or what happened. By 2 pm that afternoon, my neice, my sisters only daughter called to tell me it was ruled a homicide. It happened in indianapolis, she was a muched loved teacher all of her life so it was all over the tv. We learned three days later, by watching the news that she had been stabbed in the heart. I know it's only been 5 weeks, but still no arrests. I live 800 miles away but i check the indianapolis star every morning to see if there's anything there. nothing so far. I just need help. help coping with it all, i know they say homicide and suicide is considered complicated grief. I'm finding that to be so very true. A friend on this sight recommended I come here, too many of us dealing with all of this. thanks you, Shirley