refluxnomore

Do you think there is a mental block???

Posted on 08/27/08, 04:12 pm

I want a baby more than anything and we have been trying for more than three years. We have tried most things and are now on our first cycle of IUI. Not meaning to be blunt but His parents hate my parents and we have been 'in the middle' for three years. This has involved alot . I can't help think that if we are an unexplained infertility....would this have anything to do with it. Have you guys got any experiences or theories to match???

• Reply #1 10/22/08  2:24pm
  
  PDL
  Check out the book "Fertility Wisdon" by Angela C Wu. It goes into a lot about energy, subconcious feelings of guilt or inadequacy, and the need to forgive past events to move forward and create a welcoming enviornment internally and externally for your baby. The biggest thing is the energy, like Echart Tolies book "A New Earth", there is recent common strains in literature that supports that a babies spirit, energy, chooses you, you don't choose your baby, baby will come to you when they see you are ready to accept them both conciously and subconciously. I an unexplained, and for a very technically minded individualy it was a huge blow to not have a reason for the struggle, I kept coming back to my mind and how I was talking to myself. How I may have strongly wanted a child but deep down I didn't believe I deserved one, what if I hurt it, what if I did as my mother did and yelled all of the time when I know better than to just yell, so many what ifs that baby just new I wasn't ready even though she had tried to come to be before. It's only been since my last M/C that my mind has calmed down, that I believe with all of my heart that I am ready for my child. So to make a long story short, yes I believe there is a mental block, I also believe accupuncture can help to ensure there isn't an energy block as well.
• Reply #2 12/12/08  6:59am
  
  refluxnomore
  Thanks babe, I will. I think my concious is ready but something in my sub is stopping me.....like the fact both sets of parents dont get on etc xxx

Welcome!! I wanted to create a place where women who are diagnosed with unexplained IF can meet to discuss what they are doing to try and get pregnant. Perhaps you have a natural method that worked for you such as pre-seed or accupuncture. Feel free to post articles, books, questions. Come and share your story, let's try to help each other through this difficult journey of IF.