I am new to this group. Had my 2nd miscarriage in a row in Sept at 12 weeks. Have had several panels with no conclusive reasons as to why it happened. I keep waffling between whether I am ready to try again or whether we should just move on...we are blessed with two boys and I am 36. I know my husband would really like another baby as would I, but I do not know how to get past the fear that it will happen again. All of the innocence of having a baby is gone. I KNOW what can and does happen. How have any of you dealt with this heartbreaking fear of failure for yet a third time??