CDuvall

Need A Better Argument I GUESS

Posted on 03/20/09, 03:19 pm

I'm so tired of trying to convince my hubby that everything will be fine if we TTC. I mean, we were pregnant from July to Oct. without a plan. I just feel so empty and I have all these maternal urges to conceive again. Yes, I feel like a failure. I want to do it right just like he does but why wait. He always asks "Why the urgency now?"

I don't know...my body and my hormones and my heart and my mind...all WANT IT NOW! I cry every time I start my period. I get disappointed every time we have sex, and he is cautious. I can't stand it.

JUST WANNA SCREAM RIGHT NOW

When will it happen for me???

WHEN?

• Reply #1 03/23/09  12:41pm
  
  Sades
  i know how you feel. your body is saying "GIVE ME A BABY NOW".
  
  men dont hear that voice that we have nagging away at us telling us we are inadiquate without a child... they look at you with those eyes which say, im going to take you to the nut house in a minute, and just gently say, whats the hurry? the only way you can describe it is like being absolutly starving hungry, havent eaten in days, feel sick your so starved and everywhere you look are women have got food all around you and you tell your husband that your hungry you need food but he doesnt know how that hunger feels
• Reply #2 03/27/09  8:28am
  
  CDuvall
  Uh, he finally gave me the green light to start trying again. I'm sooo excited. The catch is that it will be after our anniversary which is in April. Oh well, just a month away. I waited for 6 months since the m/c. I can wait another month. Praise the Lord!!!!
• Reply #3 03/30/09  1:54pm
  
  CDuvall
  Green light just turned RED...My husband lost his job....
• Reply #4 10/22/09  2:36pm
  
  Skye5
  I'm in the same boat as you, although I have three girls. I had my miscarriage six months ago and am ready to try again. Our family does not feel complete yet and it is so hard looking down at that very empty flat tummy. I am so sad too when I get my period and when my husband is so cautious. I need him to be on board, but so far he does not even want to discuss. I wonder how much more time I have until the window is completely closed as I'm 40 1/2.

this group is for those mommy and daddy to angels who are currently trying to concieve or have succeeded in ttc