CashaK89897

Manipulation, Cyberstalking

Posted on 09/26/09, 10:28 pm

I have a stalker who writes on a public blog everyday. He writes things that may seem nice to some people, but there is hidden meaning in some of it. I am so frustrated that he puts these things all over the web. Here is an example of one.

Thursday, September 24, 2009
Good Night Casha... Have a happy day at school.
Hey you... Hope that you had a wonderful day today. I can not stop thinking of you, I am fighting the urge to call you. ahhh... I really like it when we talk instead. It's a bummer that I made this mess and now I am wondering around swimming in it. Suck big donkey balls! -

I still hope that you had a wonderful day. I miss you so much and want us to be friends and have each others company.

I hope that you have a wonderful morning on your way to school and a beautiful learning day. I miss you lots. Please call me or write me. This not talking to me or keep free and clear away from me is "no bueno" - I love you ... You are such a great lady and I am such a giving and understanding person. Please lets talk and share each others company.

Good Night....

Saul Zelaznog

• Reply #1 09/27/09  8:46am
  
  khabri
  There are many people who take advantage of people here because we are in a very vulnerable state when we are seeking help. Thanks for posting this.
• Reply #2 09/28/09  12:51am
  
  CashaK89897
  After writing these messages, I got a slew of emails from the guy who is stalking me. I thought that only members could see what we write? He found out everything I was doing to get help. This is what he wrote....
  
  I wanted to let you know that I have an online notification system that alerts me when my name is being posted online by people. I got two notifications last night and they are postings about me from you. - It isn't nice to put my name on forums (Daily Strength) - I do not have a problem with you seeking a support group or advise, however I do have a problem when you post my name and say bad things. You say that I am posting lies about you on my blog. Please tell me what lies i am saying about you and I will take them down or clarify them with an apology. - I feel that everything I am posting on my blog is sincere and true. I am not trying to make your life miserable, I know that there are post that still show up on the search engines. Those will soon disappear, as the blog is private and only you can see my post. Google usually takes about 6-8 weeks to remove information that is no longer available. So in time you will not be able to see your name via the blog.
  Sincerely, Z
  
  FYI... The online notification alerts are from google. All you do is type in the key work such as you name and google will send you and email or text as soon as someone post something about. Just letting you know if you are interested in knowing how I found out. - Its kinda of cool-
  
  
  
• Reply #3 09/29/09  2:42pm
  
  Nytwolf
  The only thing on DS that is private or friends only is your journal and he cannot see that no matter what he types on Google. You are being stalked. He exhibits classic stalking behaviors that are seen IRL stalking situations. I suggest private emails to persons from DS you trust and when journalling, make it for only you or friends to see not public. Just reading his creepy responses gave me a chill. Be safe. Change your screen name and avatar, if you have to. Use code words when describing him.... that's all I can think of now. Again, be safe and don't be afraid to talk to moderators and administrators if he gives you problems on DS. They are committed to keeping people safe here. Talk to Doug. He is on most peoples friends list when they come here. i kept him on for that purpose as well as general chat.

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