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the vent for someone you love closet.
Posted on 08/10/08, 12:56 am
this is a version of the venting closet. it is for venting about someone who has done someone you love wrong. stand up for them. tell there abuser how much you hate them. or how ashamed of them you are. or how the abuser has let down your freind. lets let each other know how much we love them. how much we are loved, and needed. i love you all. joey.
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Reply #1 08/10/08 1:18am
BUMP -
Reply #2 08/10/08 4:14am
to all men who have hurt MY ruby. her father, and mike especially.
her dad: it was your job to take care of ruby. to make her feel special and loved. to protect her always, and be her dad. and in return, you get a wonderfull daughter who loves you back. and when her mom died you should have held her close, and told her how much she meant to you, and how she could lean on you. but you didnt. why? are you that hurt inside that you can not help another person, not even your own daughter, who god lent you to love and raise up strong, and secure and loved. you should be ashamed of yourself. i am ashamed of you. if i had the chance i would have raised her as my own and she would know how special she is, how loved and unique, and precious.
to mike: wow i just dont get you. you had one of the best ladies i have ever known, and you treated her like shit. she would have done anything for you and made you the happiest man on earth, but look at what you did. can you even really understand what you have done? you blew the best thing you ever had, or ever will have. and so much more importantly you hurt her so badly. shes a fighter, though, shes strong and i beleive shell make it through this in time. count yourself lucky though, cos if she wasnt going to make it through this, id come down there and kill you myself, i swear i would. -
Reply #3 08/10/08 4:15am
ok shes not MY ruby. i was saying that cos i was mad for her. -
Reply #4 08/10/08 4:32am
To anyone who ever hurt/abused Ruby: Fuck you! You pieces of shit! I hope you fucking burn in Hell. I hope your abuse is revisited up on your sorry fucking asses a thousand times over! I can't take it when I think of you hurting that precious soul, that sweet innocent girl who could never hurt anyone. Fuck you! Fucking die, you assholes! And rot in Hell forever!
(I'm not as eloquent as Joe. LOL.) -
Reply #5 08/10/08 4:40am
To all those who hurt my family here... I wish you the best in your healing... but my family comes above all else. -
Reply #6 08/10/08 6:08am
Let it be known that I am not the mike that hurt Ruby, that needs clarification for my benefit. -
Reply #7 08/10/08 1:04pm
milkyway im sorry if anyone thought that of you, i wouldnt want anyone cofusing me with that awful person, i wont call him a man. hes not, hes a little boy. -
Reply #8 08/10/08 11:36pm
Who? Mike, that jerk? I have never seen him, but what I know about him, he is a free criminal, I don't like him, don't like his attitude, don't want to see his face. I wonder how he would feel if he was convicted for his crimes and abused in jail, by the rest of the inmates, all the males, and used as a woman and spent most of his days there. That would not be revenge, it would be justice. I'd be happy if there were more laws defending abused people with no exception to the elderly, children and some men. This world just has to change! -
Reply #9 08/11/08 1:29am
this vent is for my new good freind sarica.
to her dad. you have commited the worst sin imaginable against your daughter. how can you still even consider yourself her dad? god LENDS us children to raise with love, and we should want them to feel good about themselves, to feel better then we do inside. to have a better life then we ever did. its our job to love, protect, honor, cherish, and teach our children. not to use them for our own sick, selfish, needs, ends, or desires. how do you live with yourself? i couldnt. you have hurt your daughter, the one who depended on you most. stand up, be a man, take responsibility. if you really care about her, and feel sorry for her, tell her so. change. tell her its not her fault. tell her it never was, or ever will be. dont make her feel guilty for being upset for what YOU did. tell her you want to fix it, that you need to fix it. for your own sanity and hers. tell her you will do anything she needs or wants. let her take all the time to heal she needs, this is on her schedule not yours. let her be mad, then ok, then mad again if she needs to. or.... dont. but then you will suffer forever for it. and if you dont, i hope you do suffer for it.
to saricas mom. it was your job to stand up for your daughter. but you choose your husband and your self over her feelings. mother is the word for 'god' on the lips and hearts of all children. dont you get that? its your sacred duty! you blew it! your still blowing it! stop it! dont you care? dont you know? dont you see? she hurts, and is in pain. she wants you as her sacred loveing mom, get it together for her, and for you. soon you might not have that option, and youll be sorry.
to saricas ex. troach. dont know much about you but troach equalls troll and roach, so... you suck. sarica is so kind and gentle and thoughtfull and sweet and creative to! hateing yourself for blowing a good thing yet? you should be. i would be.
sarica, hold your head high. you are awesome ok? -
Reply #10 08/11/08 2:08am
bump up for sarica
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