JulErry

abuser is on the run

Posted on 06/26/12, 09:04 am

that son-of-a-bitch hasn't been home since last thursday. my husband's mother told the prosecutor that her husband went on a fishing trip. but they were sitting at the house waiting since yesterday and saw the truck in the driveway but the car was gone (and his boat is still at the marina) but then they missed him (!!!) and saw that the car was back but his truck is gone. so he's been back and forth to the house apparently. my husband told me to keep the doors locked because he doesnt know what his father is capable of anymore. i doubt he will do anything - i think he is just in hiding of course. that asshole!!!!!! i dont know if my husband's mother is helping her husband out or not but i wouldnt be surprised. as long as my kids are ok both my husband and i dont give a shit. we just hope really that he just dies somehow and that will be the end of him. this is just making my husband more and more upset. and to think that SOB most likely was acting this way most of his life, according to my therapist - most pediphiles have a history of this and its not something they start halfway in their life. i know he needs help but at the same time he is a disgusting pervert!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

• Reply #1 06/26/12  9:20am
  
  brokensun
  Oh wow. He knows he is busted. I pray they find him and you can get the justice your family deserves.
• Reply #2 06/26/12  11:51am
  
  Warriormama
  He sounds like such a coward! Innocent people don't run away. I hope they find him. Dead or alive. If he is any man at all he will just kill himself.
• Reply #3 06/26/12  2:31pm
  
  HopeCourage...
  I'm do sorry. I hope they find him alive and punish him for his crimes!
• Reply #4 06/26/12  5:16pm
  
  JulErry
  thank you guys for your support. i appreciate it.
  in reality as horrible as this may sound it would be easier for everyone if he just kills himself. i never liked him anyway but now i really hate him of course.
• Reply #5 06/27/12  2:03am
  
  oceanbluze
  Yay, hopefully he was buying some rope to hang himself with. Any one who can do that to a child is a sick bastard. My therapist said they seek control and they know children are manipulative, but I think it is much more complex than that. I think they are terrorist, I mean think of all the bribes or threats they use on kids, I know my husband has stalked me and still does. Lock your doors and don't let your daughter out of your sight. Or your husband, who knows what he might do to witness'. We already know he is sick in the head. Vey sick.
• Reply #6 06/27/12  3:09pm
  
  ginap26
  It doesn't sound horrible to have those feelings. He deserves it. I'll pray for you and your family.
• Reply #7 06/28/12  10:30pm
  
  mommaKL
  I hoped that my father in law would do himself in when my daughter disclosed, but instead he is a lying coward that denies what he has done. Pedophiles are never cured, so I suspect they all have many victims. I'm praying another one comes forward so my daughter will get validated by that side of the family and he will rot!
  
  Keep your family safe. He is obviously running. I hope they get him soon and he goes to jail.
• Reply #8 06/30/12  12:43am
  
  oceanbluze
  Im with you momma k, my ex is a lying coward too, I don't want another victim but it's the only proof I could possibly get to justify my children's statement, which they gave several times to authorities only for my ex to say I brainwashed them or had them hypnotized, and his attny turn the whole focus against me in court. They are heartless men without a soul.

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