Discussion Topic
IT HURTS
Posted on 05/10/08, 02:18 pm
So I recieved a message from someone I will remain annonomouse. Well she ripped on me because in my jurnol, and goals I have down that I want another one. That i have been struggling with my health so I need to get healthy before I can have one, and maybe looking into adopton. She chewed me out and told me ho dare I talk about wanting another one when she and others have yet to even have one. That i should be happy just to get what I get. She made some other mean comments as well, and it hurt. I don't understand why someone would be so mean. I understand how hurt she is and upset about not having any of her own. It is not my fault I was able to concieve nor can i help the feelings I have about wanting more. I have feeling just as everyone else does. I in no way ever posted this info for others to have to be forsed to see. It was in my jurnol, and one of my goals. Sorry i was just so upset about it, and needed somewhere to vent. I thought we were all here to lift one another up not bring eachother down.
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Reply #1 05/10/08 3:49pm
no kidding that was low of them to do... -
Reply #2 05/12/08 2:48pm
stacey, some people have no cooth. They have to take out their pain on someone, I am sorry you had to deal with such ignorance.
Lots of (((hugs))) to you. -
Reply #3 05/18/08 9:53pm
I know how you feel , it's happened to me 2 times now , it really sucks . -
Reply #4 05/29/08 11:07am
Even though it hurts to suffer with this infertility issue, and some women are Luckier than others at being sucessful. It is very unfair for anyone to Bash your Hopes and Dreams! Don't let anyone make you feel ashamed, your feeling are totally justifiable...I have been in your shoes, and I know how badly it can Hurt! Good Luck:) -
Reply #5 06/04/08 10:38pm
Please report that to Doug. That was uncalled for, and you come here for support, not to be harrassed or judged. I mean, seriously- we aren't in grade-school anymore!
I'm sorry that someone said those things. You have every right to want another baby. Don't let some cruel person bring you down just because SHE has a problem with your dreams.
Wishing you all the best and sending Baby Dust to you! -
Reply #6 06/19/08 9:22am
hi id just like to say as iam a mum my self with pcos i want to go on to have more it is a horribl thought that this might never happen but just because you have a child it dosent stop you wanting more. its like my parnters mother she dont agree with me wanting another child as my partner as 2 girls of is own she thinks iam been greedy but like i said to her is 2 girls are not mine ive got a little girl and love her to bits but i carnt help wanting a baby is the mose natrual thing in the world some people just dont understand dont take any notice good luck -
Reply #7 10/19/08 3:59pm
I had sever issues having my son... I suffered many many losses... 1 childs death, 1 still born and 6 m/c.... Thats said I do not think it is selfish to want more. I have a healthy 8 month old now but I want another one!! Even though I had problems I still want more. I would be jealous of women that could have babies with out issue before and still am, HOWEVER, I am extremely happy for them!! I wouldnt wish what I have been through on my worst enemy it is heart and Soul breaking. I hope that you ignore this women. I pray she finds peace with her situation and learns to direct her anger in better manor.
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