flowergirl0207

Need help ....and a shoulder

Posted on 10/01/09, 12:23 pm

I have had major ongoing issues with my crual, hurtful abusive, dillusional mother for over 20 years. I just dont know what to do, how to handle them, how to let go of the pain she has caused me for so long, how to let go of her.. how to forget the haunting memories of when things were so good when I was young, how to understand why she has done the things she has, how to let go of not having a mother anymore when I need one so badly... I need someone to talk to BADLY. Is there anyone who can listen and help?

• Reply #1 10/19/09  4:14am
  
  JenCrySmiles
  I'm not a professional or anything, but if you need someone to talk to I'm here.
  Maybe talking to a therapist would help, or someone at your local church.
  Do you by any chance know if your Mother had any mental health issues?
  That might explain why things were so good when you were younger and
  not so good the last 20 years. Some Mental Health issues do cause the person
  to be violent or cruel. I have issues with my Mom as well, but I haven't really
  resolved them. So, all I can do is offer a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen,
  and the best advice I can give.

She gave us life and brought us into the world. So why do things have to be so difficult? This group is for anyone who has issues with their Mom and would like support in dealing with it. Together maybe we can get a better understanding of why and how to deal with it.