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Husband woes
Posted on 04/14/08, 12:03 pm
Ok so I had a rough weekend. It started on Friday when I emailed an old college friend and found that she is nine months along with baby #2 by guy #2. She isn't married and is kinda flaky. I went home very depressed and was discussing it with my hubby. Anyway I found that he just can't handle it. He said that sex has just become a disapointment. So harsh! But I do understand. He didn't understand how I could still need it even though nothing comes about it. I told him that I still needed that connection and comfort. He said that he feels bad because he can't "fix" it and he wants to give me my greatest heart's desire. Seriously we need prayer. We are struggling. He is my rock and my best friend. I cannot stand what this is doing to us.
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Reply #1 08/28/08 1:30pm
Keep communicating gal. Remember men are made so so differently to us. We have to guide them at times as they cant identify what they themselves are feeling. You WILL connect at the right time but in the meantime tell him you still need closeness. My husband stopped kissing(properly) me and I had to talk it through with him.I,m not saying its sorted now but he now realises what he was , or wasnt doing.
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