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first child

Posted on 05/18/09, 09:55 am

hi new to the group my daughter died at 11 weeks old in 1995 which was hard to cope with then and still miss her now,i have just recently been threw major brain surgery for epilepsy which luckily cured me of this but the surgeon warned me because he was operating near my memory it could fetch things back that happened years ago as if they have just happened and unlucky me it did so im feeling the loss for my daughter that i did when i first lost her.i also have a beautiful 12 year old which im so gratefull for.

• Reply #1 05/18/09  4:52pm
  
  rogerledwards
  I lost my son when he wa 18-years old. He died in an accident. Your daughter is now in the Loving Hands Of God. But that is assurance for her but you will have to grief again. My son died 15 years ago and there is not a day that goes by that I don't think of him. I believe that God is sovern and has a purpose and plan for everybody. I did not come too realize all the good that has come out of my son's death. It will never get better but it will get easier. My prayers are with you abd I will continue to pray for you. God bless you and keep you in His loving Hands.
  
  Roger the MInister - verse for you
  
  1Th:4:13: But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.
  1Th:4:14: For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.
  1Th:4:15: For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep.
  1Th:4:16: For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first:
  1Th:4:17: Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.
• Reply #2 05/20/09  4:45pm
  
  CarysDaniel
  I am sorry for your pain. I lost my healthy 4 month old during his nap a year and a half ago. He aspirated into his lungs and stopped breathing. It was suddenly and unexpectedly and I still question why and how. I know that I will never forget him and I will cherish him forever. I thank God so much that I have my 3 year old and she has been my lifesaver. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

This is for mothers, fathers, or grandparents who have lost a child or grandchild. Experiencing that loss is the hardest thing ever in life, but with every ones support we can pull each other together when we get weak and be there to guide each other to carry on in our lives.