mistymoon

all new members intros

Posted on 02/08/09, 02:09 am

hi, i just joined. i thought one of the other topics was for everyone new but i guess not. so i started this thread. anyway i already explained my situation on a different thread. my daughter died last summer age 28. of (neglect in my opinion, and) pneumonia, she was developmentally disabled and had epilepsy. She died in someone else's care, i was not notified of her condition til right before she died..
This thread is for any new member who wants to introduce themselves, not just for me.

• Reply #1 03/16/09  12:10am
  
  ckloss
  I lost my 19 year old son on august 29 of 2008. He was killed in an auto accident on his way to work. i am trying to come to terms with it but find myself having a hard time.I am in counseling but feel myself needing more input help I feel as though in counseling they just want to hand me a pill to make it better and I had a bad reaction to meds right after he died almost causing me to die, so am shying away from meds.. This is the first group i have joined. I know god had a reason and i pray daily this is what has gotten me this far is my faith. I miss him terribly and have alot of guilt also. thanks
• Reply #2 04/11/09  4:17pm
  
  sadmommyD
  I lost my 24 yr old son 21.7.2007.in a motocycle accident and i can't cope with that...I can't even write anymore because i feel like i have an urge to throw up... I can't find my way out... I lost my husband few years before my son and now i am left alone... i wish i died with them but no matter the pain i am here and i live, i breathe but i died with my son...
  I am sorry for losses of all of you...
• Reply #3 04/17/09  2:24am
  
  ckloss
  I am sorry for your loss also. It is one of the hardest things I have gone through make me scared that I am going to lose our other son. it is crazy the things that remind you of the events of that day and try as hard as i do to pull out of the depression or at least accept it nothing helps. Nights are horrible it just seems rawer at night.I finally am dreaming and have had some forgiveness it seems with them, but that also brings new pain into it as they are still gone when you wake up. God bless you all my prayers and thoughts are with everyone.

This is for mothers, fathers, or grandparents who have lost a child or grandchild. Experiencing that loss is the hardest thing ever in life, but with every ones support we can pull each other together when we get weak and be there to guide each other to carry on in our lives.